"kids at church and comedy night"

tonight, we started some new things at church with the kids. we created a response area in the back with some crosses where kids can pray, give and write notes of affirmation. but first they built towers out of dixie cups.

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and then, it was comedy night here at The Plaza

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that guy was funny!
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"some consulting and a wedding"

this morning, Michelle and i met with a group of about 25 leaders from Portland who want to know about RH and what we do in Families. it was a lot of fun and they were really into it.

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and then we had Angelina and Alex’s wedding this afternoon...

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even though weddings aren’t my favorite, we had a great night!
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"a chance for change"

Michael Anthony (Michelle’s husband) was recently made the Department Chair of the Christian Education department at Biola. the awesome part is that he’s completely redesigning the program from the ground up and he’s asked me to be involved and to teach some classes next year.

so, today we had our first meeting with a bunch of people to talk about the future of the department and it was pretty awesome.

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"a birthday get together"

Adam’s birthday get-together at Roman Cucina. so good!

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"a new game for the wii"

got me a new wii game!

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"racing and walking"

first... a weigh-in...

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then... a trip to Dromo 1 racing for Alex’s bachelor party...

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and then Stacy and i went for a walk

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"Michelle teaches and Gina and Brianna drink juice boxes"

Michelle taught in The Hub (the high school group) today...

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and then Brianna and Gina were drinking juice boxes in the preschool hallway.

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"construction, a beautiful day and a trip to Yogurtland™"

so, it's been pretty cool/interesting to watch the construction going on outside my building. the third tower is almost done and the shops down below are as well. so, today i took some pictures. (besides, it was BEAUTIFUL today. nice and cool.)

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and tonight, after church, Erica, Stacy and i went to Yogurtland™ for a little post-church snack.

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"a day in without pictures"

so, we pretty much spent the day in today and didn’t take any pictures of it. don’t think of it as a pictureless day as much as a day of nothing represented by an empty space in this blog (aka- i forgot to take a picture today).
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"the return of a childhood hero"

today was the day i've been waiting for for 19 years.... the return of Dr. Jones.

unfortunately, it was good, but great. kinda like Indiana Jones meets the X-Files. (i kept waiting for Mulder and Scully to show up.)

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after that, we stopped by the mall so Stacy could buy some shorts. (this is me waiting at the Quiksilver/Roxy store.)

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"RA for skit writing"

yesterday was a hard day... today was harder. though it ended okay, it was tough.

so, Stacy, Kit, Tommy and i met up at RA to brainstorm ideas for the skits for VBS this summer.

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"an evening with a murderous barber"

today was a rough day in the office. so, as Stacy was out with a friend tonight, Tyler came over and we watched Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street. it's the romantic and beautiful story of a wronged barber who decides to get his revenge by slicing the throats of his clients and allowing the woman who lives downstairs to use the bodies to sell mincemeat pies. (it's a tragedy.)

ah... the romance.

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"a weigh in... early breakfast... and service team time!"

lost a few pounds...

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had an early lead team meeting about some really cool opportunities...

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had lunch with my friend Jorge...

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and then i went to work with my Yorba Linda Service Team friends...

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a good day all-in-all.
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"dinner on the beach"

after a LONG day, Stacy and i hopped on the Vespa, picked up some Pei Wei and headed down to Corona del Mar for dinner and a walk.

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"the return of the Hero"

i hadn't played Guitar Hero in months... so i busted it out today.

i'm still awesome.

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"a great t-shirt and hanging out with Kirscher... without pictures :-("

first, Stacy bought me a sweet t-shirt...

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um... and then Kirsch came down tonight and had dinner with us, but we didn't take any pictures. that was dumb.
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"office finale"

so we had people come over for The Office season finale but since Tyler didn't come through for me and wear his Dwight outfit, no pictures were taken.

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"dinner at Lucille's"

today we had a Families Lead Team dinner at Lucille's. (amazing food!)

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"capstone day!"

today was a day better than graduation... it was the day of my capstone presentation.

in our program, the capstone project and presentation is the culmination of all the work we've done. mine is a project called "Reflections of Leadership on Popular Culture" and is an instructional resource on using popular culture to teach leadership concepts. (you can download it
here if you'd like to see it.)

anyway, today was my presentation and it went really well! plus, my parents, Stacy, Michelle and some of my other friends got to see what i've been doing for the last two years.

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(Rob Liefeld, Emily Cartaya, Michelle Anthony, Stacy Igarashi, me, Carrie Domen, mom, dad and Dave McIntire)

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"weight gain!?!?!"

i'm up .2 pounds. bummer!

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"mother's day on stage!"

being that it was Mother's Day and i was teaching in Studio K, i thought it would be fitting for mom to come down and teach with me. we did and it was a blast! the kids loved it too.

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after that, we went to see Grandma and then to see the kids.
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"AIDS walk 2008"

ROCKHARBOR went on the OC AIDS Walk. it was cool to be one of the few faith based groups there especially since we were also the second largest group there overall! (of course, it would be hard to beat the AIDS Support Foundation!)

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"a baby and a bonfire"

Nani was SO cute when she fell asleep today...

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and then tonight, we had a kids
ROCK volunteer bonfire.... it was awesome.

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"a very early morning"

i woke up at 4.30 am and couldn't go back to sleep. (bunch of loud snorers in my cabin!)

so, i went for a walk and a drive.

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"RETREAT!!!"

today was our main day at staff retreat. we were up at Ponderosa Pines Camp in Running Springs. i didn't really know what to expect, but it was very cool to hear about how we're going to be approaching the vision of the church ("give yourself away") for the next year. also, we spent some really intentional guided time in prayer.

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plus, i got to hang out with a lot of people i didn't know very well before and even play a little volleyball.

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and then we played spoons (with granola bars instead of spoons) until like 1 am. (and i kicked Michelle's ass at some game called Rubbish.)

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"my desk"

i finished my desk today. and then we left for staff retreat.

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(that's a mountain dew bottle collection, mountain dew truck, jack-in-the-box bobble head, mountain dew license plate, Buddy Christ, MacBook, keyboard and mouse, Dunder Mifflin Mousepad, monitor, Office magnets and Ikea magnetic pen holders.)
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"the freedom of total surrender"

a lot of Christians talk about how we're supposed to try to be loving with the love of Christ or loving as Christ loves. it's a great and, i believe, well intentioned sentiment. in fact, it's one that i've often been known to endorse. (see my blog entry for 12.20.06 entitled "all you need is love.") recently however, i've changed my mind. i'm done trying.

let's be honest. there is no possible way for us to love the way the Christ does. i mean... He's totally and completely unconditional in His love... He's unbelievably patient, thoroughly selfless, undeniably good, completely joyful, unsettlingly peaceful, overwhelmingly kind and ridiculously patient. He shows mercy and grace to people who don't, for any reason, deserve it and He is the definition of sacrificial love. and, He is all of these things all the time. so, if the call in our lives is to be like that... to love like that... we're screwed from the start. we've been set up for failure. we don't stand a chance. it's a good thing that He doesn't expect that of us.

i know what you're thinking... "um... yes He does! i've read my Bible (or not). i've gone to church (or not). i've heard the stories. that's exactly what He calls us to!" nope. God's not that mean. He's not the God that sets us up for unavoidable failure. i mean, i feel like a God that would do that doesn't fit into the criteria listed in the previous paragraph. so, what are His expectations of us? the only answer that could possibly make any sense is that God expects nothing less than a total surrender of our lives to HIm. oh.... that's all.

we all know that we're not capable of perfect love. we have sin in our nature and the one's who taught us to love did too. the one's we look to for that perfect love in our lives (our parents, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, kids, best friends, etc...) are imperfect just like us. no wonder we're always let down by love. but God is different.

the Bible says that God is love (1 John 4:8). He IS love. that doesn't mean that God is lovING. it doesn't mean that He likes love or tries to show love. it means that He is the embodiment of love. obviously, we aren't God. for us to ever think we could attain God's love is to believe that we could be God and that is (as Jermaine from
Flight of the Conchords would say) a preposterous hypothesis.

so, God gave us another way. He gave us Himself. more specifically, He gave us His Spirit. when we accept Jesus as God, the Holy Spirit of God comes to live in us. and since God is love... we suddenly have the embodiment of love living in our soul. so the challenge becomes not to choose to show all of the attributes of love found in 1 Corinthians 13 (as i had previously supposed), but to choose to let God work through us. to set aside our own selfish desires and allow God to do His thing in and through us. to totally surrender our own will to the will of God. only then can the people around us really experience the love of God through us.

with the majority of Christians (including myself) running around trying to act like God and failing miserably, is it any wonder that non-Christians often despise us? (i despise us half the time!) we look ridiculous as we preach one thing and then fall flat on our faces using every ounce of our human weakness to live up to the unreachable standards we've set for ourselves and the world. no wonder we're regarded as morons. it's time to let it go. it's time to stop trying to act like Christ and, instead, put ourselves aside let Christ act through us.

there is great freedom in this recognition of our limitations. now, the pressure that we put on ourselves to be more Christ-like can be lifted. (this is a relief since the effort is really pretty futile.) instead of praying for the strength to be able to love like Christ, pray instead that you would be able to surrender to His will and be filled to the fullness of His Spirit as Paul did in his letter to the Ephesians. then, God (love Himself) will shine through you.
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"weigh-in and business cards"

today... i hit the 18 pound mark! only 22 pounds to go.

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also, i got my new business cards and my profile was (finally!) posted on the
ROCKHARBOR website. (click here to check it out... a bit entertaining.)

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"exhausted"

today was thoroughly exhausting. church, interviews, dinner, meetings... i'm tired.

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"in progress... no more!"

for two years, i've been writing "degree in progress" on résumés and applications. well, no more. today was the day... graduation! i am now a double master. (you may reverently bow in accordance.) check out the pics!

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they were taking pictures of us... so i took pictures of them too!

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"a presentation and a hooding"

today was Emily's thesis presentation. she did a great job. amazingly enough, it fit in perfectly with what we've been doing at RH and what the Orange Conference is about. very cool.

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that night, we had our hooding ceremony and banquet. it was great to be able to be there with my friends from the program as well as Stacy and my parents.

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"comin' home!"

back home now! good to be back.

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