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"the annual framily Christmas party"

tonight, we got together with the Corks, Chandlers and our family to celebrate Christmas. as always, a fun time was had by all!

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"the big Fashion Island tree"

every year, Fashion Island puts up this HUGE Christmas tree. supposedly, it's the largest on the West Coast. (somebody said largest in the country, but i don't think that's true.)

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"beautiful pics and Keving too"

a very beautiful day out...

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and, here he is... Keving.

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"just when you thought it was over..."

you think school’s out and you’re done... but you’re not. the whole “last day of school” thing is so anticlimactic for a teacher. today, i graded a lot of papers.

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"you'll shoot your eye out, kid!"

as a surprise date, Stacy took me to do something i’ve never done before...

shoot a gun! it was pretty awesome!

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"well intended messages for God"

the kids in StudioK had a chance to write messages to God on rocks...

here’s my favorite one. (if you watched
Arrested Development it’ll be yours too!)

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"beautiful clouds and hosting the Christmas show"

i was out for a walk today and noticed that the clouds were amazing... so i went back and got my camera.

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tonight, i hosted our annual “Twas the Night Before Christmas” family event. it’s actually an event put on by the Arts department for our families. (we just support it.) but, this year, i hosted... and it was awesome! the families are all supposed to come in their pajamas and watch Christmas stories acted out for them. check out my PJ’s!

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"the RH leaders Christmas potluck... 50s style!"

what do you do when the budget is running low and you have a giant party to throw for all of your leaders? apparently, you make it a potluck and give it a 50s theme for extra measure!

i can’t believe it’s been a year since the last one i was at (as a volunteer!). what a great year!

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Tammi tries to shoot a gun... entertaining.

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she looks like she’s singing, but she’s not... she’s talking about her amazing volunteers.

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ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

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ah... they’re goofy.

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Pete wins.

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again...

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i think Pete loses here.

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an excellent look for Keving.

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i guess she asked “what needs to be done?”
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"families Christmas lunch and irvine @ night"

today we had our RH families Christmas lunch and gift exchange...

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this is where i live...

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"a piñata for 'question of the month'"

every month, ROCKHARBOR families is looking at another question to be considering in how we do ministry. each month, at our first team meeting of the month, the question is revealed in a creative manner. today... it was inside a piñata.

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"say goodbye to the interns"

today was the last day of class for my internship ii class. they were a great class and put up with my learning curve a lot. i’m going to miss them!

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"Tommy in the Hub and my own ugly Christmas sweater party"

i’m not sure why i took a picture of Tommy hosting in the Hub today... but i did. and here it is.

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and, tonight, i had some of my students over for an ugly Christmas sweater party of my own. (i have to get the most possible mileage out of that thing!)

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"DCC trip... day three"

this morning, we met over at Leigh’s house for our last meetings. it was actually kinda interesting. some of the preschool curriculum discussion got a bit heated. (a sentence that makes me laugh out loud just now that i read it.)

but it was good. it lead to some great discoveries about our team and the dynamics we’re working with. in any case, the meeting was a little more relaxed than the others!

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Janet wanted to be comfortable.

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Cristi is passionate about preschool scope and sequence!

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Tori really wants to care but the blanket makes her want to take a nap.

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Leigh just observes. i think we’re fascinating to her. like a case study.

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when Cristi really gets passionate, she stands up.

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(the previous pictures of me were posed in order to convince people that i made some positive contributions to the meeting. i did not.)

later, we headed into town for some lunch and had a lot of great conversations about personality and shared great stories and laughed a lot! (also, we debated the under or over use of the word “love.”)

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also, Michelle accused me of not giving good hugs. so then, everyone had to rate my hugs and, in the end, it was decided that my hugs were, in fact, amazing. (thank you very much.)

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on the way out of town, we drove through this amazing place called “The Garden of the Gods.” it was really beautiful and there were all these amazing naturally occurring formations.

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unfortunately, we didn’t really have time for the whole “Garden of the Gods” thing so we had to haul ass to the airport from there. we barely made it!

all in all, a great trip... though i’m glad to be home!


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by the way, Leigh... we LOVE you! ;-)
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"DCC trip... day two"

so, today was pretty much meetings all day.

but these are pictures i took from our drive on the way into the office.

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beautiful.

anyway, i had a meeting with Janet this morning over breakfast to talk about what leadership would look like in the curriculum. then it was meetings all day to talk about branding and components and content and on and on.

it was very productive though and... the really beautiful thing about this company... they have Mountain Dew in their cafeteria in ALL THREE FORMS!!! (bottled, canned and fountain dew.) amazing.

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that night, we had the DCC company Christmas party. this is where i really saw the cultural differences between DCC and RH. if you saw the pictures from the RH Christmas party, you got the idea of what that was like. well, this was as opposite as you can get.

people in formals in a banquet room at a hotel. a speaker. a full dinner with appetizers, salad (which i didn’t eat, of course... being a meat-a-tarian and all), a main course and dessert. worship.

well, you get the idea. it was different. and i’m not sure if we fit in. we were laughing a lot and having fun. people kept looking at our table. (i’m not sure if they were annoyed at us or jealous that they weren’t sitting with us. probably a little of both.) ;-)

anyway, here are the pics...

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"DCC trip... day one"

today, Michelle, Tori, Cristi and i headed out for Colorado Springs for a three day trip to meet our Colorado counterparts!

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the flight was a little hairy. we got about ten feet above the runway when the pilot pulled back up because it was too icy to land. we flew around for 45 minutes while they somehow de-iced the runway. (i’m not sure what this consists of. i picture hundreds of men out there scraping away at the tarmac with giant ice-scrapers.)

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then, after we landed, Michelle broke her heel while we were getting the rental car. (really, Michelle? high heels in the snow?)

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so, by the time we got on the road, we were already running late (because of the 45 minutes extra in the air) and we were really hungry! so, we decided that even though we had meetings to go to, our stomachs had to come first. we found a Chili’s that had a Kohl’s in the same parking lot and we got lunch and new shoes for Michelle all in one stop.

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and then it was on to the David C. Cook fortress (it’s seriously this intimidating looking building that can only be described as a fortress).

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when we got there, we were welcomed by Janet and Leigh and the entire company. (we were kinda treated like celebrities. i think it’s the California thing.) we had a meeting or two and headed off to a great dinner.

more tomorrow!

oh... when we were getting a tour of the DCC building, we saw this and thought it was pretty cool. (minus the unfortunate location of the fire alarm.)

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"the first ever ROCKHARBOR ugly Christmas sweater staff party"

i think the title says it all. normally, the RH staff goes to Disneyland for the Christmas party, but this year... well, we have budget issues. so, we stayed in and made a party of it all!

enjoy the ugly sweaters and know that i got 3rd place for the guys. (not bad out of like 30 or so guys!)

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um... yeah. we look good.

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a few sizes too small there, Mike.

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Aida won it all!

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Lexie actually made Tim’s sweater for him!

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there are now two Basix cd’s floating around out there. watch out, Tommy!

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not an ugly sweater... SHAME!!!!

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ugly sweaters and ugly couches.

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the finalists.

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waiting in line for TK Burger

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Doug Berry tries to hide his Starbucks in his pocket before he goes into the movie theater. (it didn’t work!)
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"isn't Noah and the Ark such a cute story about death and destruction?"

we’ve been talking a lot lately (both at RH and in my internship class at Biola) about how we tell stories. mostly, we’ve been talking about how we tend to tell them wrong.

for instance, we make Noah and the Ark this cute little story we tell kids about animals and boats. we make it so cute that people make little cartoon pictures about it and put them up in nurseries and whatnot. this is jacked up.

Noah’s story is about God’s vengeance on a world that had forsaken Him and His covenant with all of creation thereafter. He destroyed the world. i totally understand why we would celebrate this with our youngest children. (that’s called sarcasm... there’s no really good way to denote that in text.)

anyway, i was out shopping tonight for ugly Christmas sweaters (for our staff party tomorrow) and i saw this and it made me laugh because it’s EXACTLY what i’ve been talking about. enjoy.

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"self-indulgence on account of my earliness"

i got to Biola early this morning, so i sat on a bench and was checking my email. i finished that and started my own little PhotoBooth session. don’t judge.

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"a little bit of Christmas"

here’s what the fireplace looked like after we set it up (at my parent’s house)...

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tonight, Stacy and Tammy wanted to get a Christmas tree. so, i went with them over to Home Depot to pick one up. they kept smelling them. i think that’s weird.

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"inappropriate Santa"

our family has a tradition that we usually set up Christmas the day after Thanksgiving. somehow, this year, that got pushed off to the day after the day after Thanksgiving.

anyway, we met up at the house along with Brett and Dakota and began to take Christmas out of storage. another tradition me and my sisters have is to put Santa and Mrs. Claus in inappropriate (read
sexually compromising) positions in order to freak my mom out. of course, at this point, she doesn’t freak out as much anymore but she does still get a little ruffled and it’s entertaining.

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Dakota looked ridiculously cute today... especially after she found this crown somewhere in the house.

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we went to see Scout again, and (though it’s hard to tell here), he actually looked much better. they say he’ll be able to come home in a few days. (which is a bit hard to believe.)

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"giving thanks with friends and family"

it’s Thanksgiving!

we headed up to my parent’s house. we didn’t have as many family members there as usual since Amie was in Indiana and Andy moved to Australia. but Megan brought Ryan (more on that in a moment) and Stacy brought her mom, sister and the kids.

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after dinner, Ryan decided to get my dad by smashing his face in a plate of whipped cream... it was pretty awesome! (anyone that ballsy is more than welcome in our house!)

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dad was shocked and got him back in very unoriginal style.

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we had originally planned on going to a movie after dinner. but this is what happens every year. we decide to see a movie. the time comes to go. we debate whether we should
really go or not. and then it’s about an 80% chance that we won’t end up going. we didn’t go this year. instead, we watched “As Good As It Gets” at home.

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(Meri loves it when i take pictures of her.)

finally, Scout had a bad week. yesterday, he got out and was attacked by a bobcat. he’s in the hospital and they’re not totally sure he’s going to make it. so, we decided to end the night by going to visit him. he did not look good.

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"purpose driven football"

today was our annual staff football game. we always face off against another church staff the day before Thanksgiving. usually, it’s called the TurkeyBowl. however, since it was just us and Saddleback today, we called it Purpose-Driven Football.

unfortunately, we lost in OT. it was really close though and our team did a great job! of course, since i am athletically useless for such a competition, i brought my camera and took pictures for everyone.


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"playing in the cold"

there are two bands that i will see every time they come through town if i can...

U2 and Coldplay.

Coldplay was at the Pond (Honda Center) tonight, so... of course... so was i!

it was great. they have seriously gotten better every time i’ve seen them. so talented.

on top of that, it was POURING rain outside and we parked about 1/2 a mile away and had no umbrella. so, we really were playing in the cold as we ran to the concert and back.

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"a little peace"

i got to Biola early this morning and found this park bench. so, i just chilled here for a bit and read out of “Permission Evangelism” (great book!).

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"a day in the Outlet"

went in to the Outlet (our middle school Sunday celebration service) today. i haven’t spent a lot of time in there, so it was good to see what they’re up to. (especially since i’m speaking in there soon!)

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"family ichat"

Megan, Meri and i had a little iChat about our holiday plans today. they weren’t thrilled that i was taking pictures.

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"thanksgiving comes early!"

tonight, we had all of our elementary volunteers over for an early Thanksgiving dinner at my place.

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"early morning beach trip and reading to little ones"

this morning, i went down to the beach to watch Stacy surf. however, by the time i got there, she was out of the water because it was so foggy and the waves weren’t great. oh well. i like it down there in the mornings. very peaceful.

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later, we went up and saw the kids and i read to them for a bit. they don’t care what the words are... they make up their own stories to go along with the pictures.

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"an impromptu haircut"

after work today, Stacy and i were hanging out at my place when i decided i needed a nap. before i went in to lay down for 20 minutes or so, i told Stacy that i’d been thinking about buzzing my head again. she said “cool” and that was that.

about 10 minutes into my nap i woke up. when i walked out 10 minutes later, i had no hair.

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"a little faster"

i wanted to go a little faster.

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"Nani throws a tantrum"

since the fires were so close to Erin’s house, she and the kids came and stayed with Stacy. so, this morning they came to church.

only about 15 minutes into service, Nani’s pager goes off meaning that Erin needs to come and get her because something’s wrong. being that Erin’s already on edge because of the fires, i took the pager and went to see what was going on. Nani was throwing a huge tantrum. (normally she’s really good, but today she did not want to be alone.)

so, i took her and we went over to the Lab service kids rooms and hung out. she was fine once i was there, but i’m still not sure what was up with that.

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"eating sushi while the world burns down"

Stacy and i met up with Megan at Koji’s for lunch today.

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of course, we knew about the fires that were burning behind Yorba Linda, but we didn’t realize how bad they were. by the time we came out of the restaurant, this is what the sky looked like.

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the weird thing was, the smoke never made its way down to South County. in fact, it was beautiful and really clear in Irvine. tonight, it was so clear, i took this picture from my balcony.

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"Nani goes to D-Land"

we decided she was old enough.

we may have been wrong.

either way, today was the day that we took Nani on her first trip to Disneyland.

(she wasn’t big on the rides but LOVED the fountains and the carousel.)

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"the ultimate man night"

every year, the girls of the ROCKHARBOR staff have a “Girls Day Away” where they go and do whatever girls do when they all get together. (i think it was a spa day.) apparently, for years, the guys have been talking about doing one for themselves but, as Stacy Scott pointed out, they could never get one of the girls to organize it for them.

all that has changed.

tonight was the men’s night.

we started at
ROCKHARBOR (behind 3080) with a gaming truck. this thing was pretty cool. basically, it was a big trailer with about 15 XBox stations in it. the guys piled in and we played Halo 3 for about three hours straight.

(by the way, Mike Erre is ridiculously good at Halo. Pete Shambrook gets incredibly intense when he plays. to the point that he doesn’t hear you if you try to talk to him. Shawn Scott and i sucked and spent most of the time talking.)


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after that, it was off to the movies for the midnight screening of “The Quantum of Solace.” (it wasn’t great.)

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but, we had a great night and it was really good to get to know some of the guys a bit better.
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"saying goodbye"

last week, our extended family suffered a loss.

as some of you know, my cousin, Jordan, has been living with my parents for the past few months. we’ve become pretty close to him over the past years as he and Megan graduated from Pepperdine together. aside from Jordan, we’re not very close with his family or that side of the family. he’s kind of a more distant cousin and we only got connected with him because of he and Megan going to Pepperdine together.

anyway, Jordan’s brother, Jared, passed away last week. today was the funeral. i went up with Bekie and met Megan and my parents there.

it was a bit awkward for a few reasons. first, we aren’t very close to that side of the family. second, it was kind of like a family reunion, but under horrible circumstances. (those are always awkward anyway.) third, they asked Matthew Cork to do the message and i think that trying to give hope and peace to a family you don’t know of a person who took their own life is a difficult thing. (Matthew did a great job and i don’t envy him that task.)

Jordan and his family are, of course, a wreck right now. it’s hard to see anyone going through that kind of pain. i wasn’t sure if i should be there at first, but i’m glad i went now. i know Jordan appreciated it.

obviously, it would have been highly inappropriate to be snapping pictures during the service, but i did take one quick one from the car as we were leaving the graveside service. at least it was a very beautiful day.

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on a more positive note, Bekie and i had a great time catching up on the rides up and back. also, she made me go to the Urgent Care to get my foot looked at because i had refused to do so. (it was a little infected.)
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"the big God story in class"

tonight, i taught the Big God Story in my evangelism and discipleship class. but, before i did, i wanted to see how much these Bible school kids knew. so, i had them put the events of the Bible in order from beginning to end.

they did alright! (of course, with 39 kids, you should be able to do that.)

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"stacy teaches and mom gets older"

Stacy taught in Studio K this morning (and last night too).

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today was mom’s birthday so we went to dinner at Roy’s (as we always do for her birthday).

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"cars, coffee and kids"

Chino’s big into cars now so we thought we’d take the kids down to Cars and Coffee this morning. it was fun! (i love the way Nani came running to me when she saw me from down the path. so freakin’ cute!)

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"ouch!!!!"

so, tonight we were supposed to go to Disneyland with a bunch of people from work. i was very excited about this.

Stacy was on her way over to my house so we could go when disaster struck. as i was opening the door to my bedroom, my foot got in the way (bad foot!) and the door (with a metal strip running down the side of it) went over the top of my foot and the metal strip cut it pretty badly.

i didn’t feel it at first. i wasn’t looking that way, but just from the way the door felt as i pushed it open, i knew something wasn’t right. then i looked down.

mucho blood.

i knew that the shock of it would wear off pretty quickly so i took advantage of the lack of pain that i was experiencing. i started to think about whether i had any large bandages or not... just as i began to realize that i didn’t, the pain kicked in.

HOLY CRAP ON A STICK!!!! (it was painful.)

all i could come up with to stop the bleeding was wrapping my foot in paper towels and painters tape. so, that’s what i did.

and then i called Stacy and said “so... i think we’re probably not going to Disneyland, but if you could pick up some large bandages on your way over, that would be awesome!”

she was a little confused at first, but then i explained the situation and the level of pain i was experiencing. she came quickly with bandages.

we didn’t go to Disneyland.

we watched “Across the Universe” instead. (a descent but too long movie that made some obvious plot sacrifices to fit in particular songs.)

good night!

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"our first date... take two"

on our first date, Stacy and i went to Koji’s and then went bowling.

tonight, we tried a new Japanese place (“Tokyo Table”) and went bowling at Strike @ the District.

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"worship rehearsal and voting"

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"eeek!"

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"a morning of worship"

first, i led worship in Studio K this morning...

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then i went over to The Outlet (middle school) to watch Jeff lead worship there.

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"a very cool night"

tonight, Megan and Carly Manarelli got baptized in the service at ROCKHARBOR. Megan is a 5th grader who i’ve known for a year and a half now and Carly is her 1st grade sister who is, clearly, my best friend. anyway, when you’re getting baptized, you can ask for anyone you want to actually do it and Megan asked me. (Carly asked Stacy.) this was a very cool honor.

now, if you’ve never been to a baptism at
ROCKHARBOR, let me set the stage for you. it’s just about the end of the service and there is an inflatable pool on stage. as each person is brought up to be baptized, the worship team is playing and the whole place is singing. each time a person goes under, the place goes nuts. i mean... yelling and cheering like the home team just scored a touchdown. (the first, and probably last sports analogy you’ll ever read on this blog.) it’s a pretty cool experience and i try to make it to all of them.

i’ll let the pictures tell the rest of the story. (look for
Poison guitarist, CeCe Deville in one of the pictures. i guess he became a Christian and has been coming to ROCKHARBOR for a while now.)

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"cars and coffee for a cause"

the organization Megan goes to Africa with (“Angels of East Africa”) is auctioning off a custom West Coast Chopper and was down at Cars and Coffee this morning.

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"the ultimate costumes for the ultimate costume party"

part of my costume required me to be clean-shaven and have a mustache. unfortunately, i hadn’t let mine grow long enough yet. (but i tried it out first anyway.)

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(Stacy hates that.)

tonight was the Anthony’s Costume Party. the costumes were pretty amazing. let me take you through them.

first, we have Camille and her husband, John as Pam and Jim from The Office.

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next, we have our lovely host, Michelle Anthony, as Cleopatra.

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Gabe came as a nerd who got beat up. (might not have been a costume.)

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Tom Swogger came as some video game character. (i don’t know who he was supposed to be, but supposedly, he was dead on.)

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Sharron’s husband, Jimmy, came as Tiger Woods.

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Ang and Alex were Velma and Shaggy from Scooby Do.

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Tyler and Allison were, of course, Dwight and Angela. (amazing.)

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Kit and Gina were Bleeker and Juno from the movie Juno.

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Tommy came as.... um... some sort of cheese... thing. and Keri came as Ugly Betty.

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Cristi came as a black-jack dealing cat. (“come on, cat!”)

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and Ashley and Tori came as the season of Fall and a butterfly (respectively).

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there were some others as well (who you’ll see in the group shots), but i didn’t get individual shots of them. however, the winners of the costume contest were, of course, Stacy and i as Michael and Michelle Anthony.

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it was pretty awesome. people literally kept thinking we were them all night. (yes... Stacy cut a Styrofoam ball in half to create giant boobs.) here are the pictures from the rest of the night.

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"sunrise and costume check"

amazing sunrise this morning...

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not sure why i was up to see it.

later, Stacy tried on her costume for Michael and Michelle’s costume party. i tried part of it on too.

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"trying on new pants"

okay... but the weird thing is, i took the picture after i’d put my regular jeans back on. why wouldn’t i have taken the picture of the NEW jeans???

i’m a moron.

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"seriously?!?!?!"

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"happy birthday, Ella!"

tonight, we celebrated Ella Cork’s birthday. it made me feel a little bit old.

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"hangin' after church"

title pretty much sums it up.

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"VBS wrap party... three months later"

we’ve been meaning to have a wrap party for the VBS skit crew for a few months. however, every time we try to do it, someone can’t make it.

tonight... we finally made it happen!

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"kids, dogs and cars"

we took the kids up to my parent’s house today. so cute.

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"the state of my desk"

now that i work for both ROCKHARBOR and David C. Cook, i have more crap on my desk. i have my laptop which i use for RH stuff and personal stuff and i have my iMac which Cook gave me for Cook stuff. it’s cluttered but it’s kinda fun too.

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"Tori's birthday @ the gypsy den"

today was Tori’s birthday so we took her to breakfast at The Gypsy Den. right when we walked up, her boyfriend, Kevin came walking out. she thought we planned it. we didn’t. total coincidence. worked out though!

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(Cristi is laughing and Tori’s not sure why.)
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"YOU know who!"

today we had a pretty heated conversation in our lead team meeting. it ended up being very helpful and productive, but it was heated nonetheless.

at one point, Michelle asked a question (“who does a good job of shepherding parents?”) that nobody was sure they knew the answer to. (she obviously had a particular “right” answer in mind, but nobody knew what she wanted us to say.)

she said “come on you guys! you know who!” (which was a reference to the movie “What Happens in Vegas.”)

we sorta laughed about that but still didn’t know the answer. what happened next is captured below.

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fortunately, this broke the tension and everybody laughed. (even though Michelle doesn’t look like it in the picture.)
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"stop going up!"

grrrrr.

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"the two Jordans"

okay... so there are these two kids named Jordan in our fourth grade class at RH. but they look a lot alike. for a long time, i thought it was one person... and then i saw them together. sure... there are differences, but come on! they look a lot alike AND they have the same name AND they’re in the same class. not related at all.

that’s weird.

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NAPCE... day three

today was the last day of NAPCE. Michelle was the keynote and knocked it out of the park!

she usually talks to practitioners and does well. but to get academics to embrace the families philosophy that we’re talking about is a serious feat and she did it. (they were literally lined up to talk to her afterward!) it was pretty cool.

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before she spoke though, i needed a caffeine boost. unfortunately, no Mountain Dew in the hotel. so, i had to walk to the gas station on the corner.

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there must be an airbase or something near by because the entire time we were in Atlanta, there were fighter jets flying overhead. i don’t know what that was about.

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oh... and i saw this really weird ad in the airport. (those are hands.)

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when we got home, church was happening so Stacy couldn’t pick me up. i walked home from the airport which was actually kinda nice. (it’s only like a mile.)
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NAPCE... day two

Jim Burns kicked off the conference last night with sort of “state of the families” talk. he continued it this morning but did a great job of setting up Michelle who is the keynote speaker for tomorrow.

it’s an interesting crowd. i’m probably the youngest here by 10 years. it’s been fun though.

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the last one is me in my hotel room. i was bored.
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"a beautiful sunrise and a trip to the east coast"

this morning, i had to go to the airport at a very early time to catch a plane to Atlanta. Michelle and i were meeting Michael and Janet out there for the NAPCE conference. (i think it’s National Association of Professors of Christian Education... but i could be wrong.)

the sunrise was beautiful before i left.

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fortunately, Michelle and i were able to orchestrate some seating changes on the plane and sit next to each other. we talked the entire way. seemed like the shortest flight ever!

note to self: if you want long trips to seem short, bring Michelle.
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"macbooks, the wind and 3rd wednesdays"

today was the day... NEW MACBOOKS!!!

i went and got one. so pretty.

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it was really windy today which provided for a beautiful view outside.

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tonight was the second 3rd Wednesday at
ROCKHARBOR. we’re taking the 3rd wednesday of every month to set aside for prayer. we don’t work but have prayer meetings in the morning, at noon and in the evening. (the morning ones are optional.) we’ve been having around 1,000 people show up for these and that’s pretty amazing!

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"writing on rocks in meetings"

we had a Families meeting today and Michelle had us take a rock and write on it something that we wanted to celebrate in our ministry

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"bad scale!"

you’re going the wrong direction!

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"24 hours of Corks (part two)"

this morning, i didn’t have a clue how long it would take for three kids to get ready for church. so, i woke them up at 7 (Nolan was already playing Wii when i woke up at 6.30) and had them start getting ready. i needed to be at church by 8.45, so i figured that would give them an hour and a half to get up, eat breakfast, take showers, get dressed, etc...

they were ready to go by 7.30. now we had an hour to kill before we needed to leave. i really need to figure this kids thing out.

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unfortunately for them, they had to sit through two services since i was teaching at the second service and had to be there for the first. of course, since i had The Conversation all week and then was trying to keep up with the Corks all weekend, my lesson in The Hub sucked. bad. what are you going to do?

after church was out, i took them back to my parent’s house, but not before we had a large disagreement in the car about where we might go for lunch. (Burger King ended up being the winner.)

one at a time is good. three is a bit much.
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"24 hours of Corks (part one)"

so, today i did something that might be considered monumentally stupid. the Cork’s (Matthew and Mardi) are in India and my parents and the Chandlers have been taking turns taking care of the kids. however, both of them were busy tonight and they asked me if i’d take them. i said yes. i’m not sure why.

i mean, to go from having zero kids to having three kids under the age of 9 in one day is a little overwhelming. especially after The Conversation being this week and with me teaching in The Hub (high school group) tomorrow.

first, i picked them up from my parent’s around 1. i decided to keep the entertained by taking them to Boomers for some mini golf. (good call!)

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after Boomers we went and grabbed some pizza at Roundtable. i forgot how good Roundtable is!

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after that, i had promised a friend of mine from church that i’d come and check out his art exhibit at the Costa Mesa City Art Show at Triangle Square. the kids actually seemed to like it. unfortunately, Ella fell on the escalator and cut herself. she was okay after a few minutes, but she wanted me to carry her, which i couldn’t do for very long. (she’s not two anymore!)

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after that, we went home and played Guitar Hero. but i wasn’t sure what to do with them at this point, so i called Stacy (who was working the Saturday night service) and left a one word voicemail... “HELP!”

she came over around 8.30 and we all walked to Cherry On Top for some yogurt and then watched some of “Elf” before hitting the sack.

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all-in-all... a good, but exhausting, day. but we’re not done yet!
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"The Conversation... day two"

so, these last two days were pretty much amazing. i mean, even though i was a van driver and a session leader for our little summit here, it was pretty great.

this conference was the culmination of everything we’ve been working for since i came onboard back in January. (for Michelle, it’s the culmination of over four years of work.) today, Michelle got to present our philosophy of family ministries and people were eating it up. this project could be HUGE. it’s the end of the beginning and the beginning of something big.

the picture below is of the president of Cook (Chris) opening the day for us this morning.

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later today i was driving along and i saw this truck. i wonder if he’s a relative?

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"The Conversation... day one"

today was pretty awesome. “The Conversation” started and we had around 40 people from all over the country here to talk about Family Ministries. Michelle, Janet, Sharron and i all got a chance to lead sessions and the participants were totally into it.

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"preparing for The Conversation"

on Thursday and Friday of this week, we’re hosting a conference here at ROCKHARBOR to get some feedback from practitioners and professionals on the Cook/RH project. today, we met to get everyone on the same page for it.

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"watching Heroes"

yeah... that’s Hiro.

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"gained a little"

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"party at Kit's!"

today, we had a BBQ at Kit’s house for the families team. we played Bocci Ball and had some great food. for some reason, i was a little out of it and didn’t enjoy being there even though it was a great party. Stacy’s been out of town for the past few days and came back tonight after the party. it was good to have her back.

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"october family time curriculum day!"

working on the October edition...

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"Traci on Friends"

turns out that Traci Carpenter was in the background of an episode of Friends. so, tonight we checked it out.

that’s her sitting at the table in the background at Central Perk!

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"puppets and drugs"

today, Traci got her new puppet for teaching our 2 year olds. we had some fun with this. (Kit made him a joint.)

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oh... and these are my feet in the elevator.

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"the Cooks are all in the kitchen"

today was our first full meeting with our Cook team. (at least, the California contingent of the team.)

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and tonight we went to Islands with my fam and i took this horrible picture.

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"another stalled out weigh-in"

i swear... i’ve been stuck around the same weight for a few months now. grr.

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"another wedding... but this one had In N' Out!"

today was Joe and Tammy’s wedding. they met on our Romania trip last year and fast-tracked it to the altar. (though there was no altar.)

there was, however, In N’ Out for dinner! (my kinda wedding!) the whole thing was more of a Ro-Union for our old team and we had a great time.

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(we got a little tired after dinner)

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"playing all night (part two)"

the rest of these were after midnight and, therefore, were from a different day!

we had a HUGE inflatable obstacle course in The Hangar.

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then we all stayed up forever just hanging out and talking after the kids all fell asleep.

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since i had no responsibilities this year, i actually got to go home and sleep around 4.30 am.
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"real Scout, fake Scout and playing all night (part one)"

i was at my parent’s today. they have a little statue of a dog just like Scout. when i saw this, i had to take a picture. (which one is real?)

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awesome.

tonight was the annual elementary all-nighter. it’s a pretty amazing all night long craziness type event. last year i was in charge. this year, i’m just a spectator. i like that.

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crazy kids, including Cori Cruze.

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Ashley got us Yogurtland!

to be continued...
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"costume shopping and The Office premiere"

Stacy and i went shopping for Halloween costumes today. i won’t show you what we decided on but they are pretty amazing and i’m pretty sure we’re going to be the hit of Michelle’s party. i tried this on for fun.

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afterward, we went back to The H for The Office season premiere party. in the evite, we told everyone to dress up like an Office character. then i e-mailed everyone except for Tyler and told them not to.

i just wanted to see Tyler and Allison as Dwight and Angela.

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totally worth it.

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"grab the kids and run for the border"

that’s right...

Taco Bell lunch with Chino and Nani!

mmmm... Gordita!

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"a torn up yard!"

first...

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after i taught my first class today, i went up to check out the Thrasher house. the landscapers had begun their work and boy was that place torn up!

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while i was there, i went next door to say “hi” to Janet and she had Dakota there with her.

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"more teaching and baked potatoes"

taught in Studio K again this morning and took the camera onstage with me.

Tammi introduced me...

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and the kids smiled for the camera...

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and i’m pretty sure there was something about Jesus too!

Stacy made twice-baked potatoes for dinner.

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"teaching at church and Snakes on a Plane"

tonight, i taught in Studio K...

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and then had a guy’s movie night with Adam and Kyle and watched “Snakes on a Plane.” it’s the most horribly awesome movie ever made!

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"a RO-Union for another RO"

obviously, i didn’t go to Romania this year. but Stacy did. tonight was there reunion (or what we call Ro-Unions).

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"editing my life away"

Michael Anthony hired me to shoot and edit some videos for Biola. today i edited. i forgot how much i really don’t like doing that. oh well... at least i’m getting paid this time!

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"staff not-away day"

today was the day i’d been waiting for since i came on staff nine months ago. i’d heard all about it last year before i came on and i couldn’t wait to see what we were going to do this year.

it was Staff Day Away.

every year, the staff gets a fun day away in the fall as a sort of kick off for the next ministry year. it’s a RH tradition that last year had the staff running all over Orange County on a scavenger hunt that ended with a boat ride in Newport Harbor. that was before i was on staff. so, i’ve been looking forward to this for a long time.

well... whenever you look forward to something like that, you’re bound to be let down one way or another. Michelle tried to warn us ahead of time, but we didn’t really listen. you see, our staff day away, really wasn’t.

we showed up in the morning and were told that we would be meeting with our sabbatical groups to catch up and spend some time together. not quite what i had in mind, but i thought “well, we’ll do this and then the fun will start, i’m sure.”

so, our group went to this little place called “Milk and Honey” and hung out.

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it was nice to catch up with Laura and Andrew and i’m glad we got the chance to do that since our sabbaticals were so long ago. but as our hour came to a close, we rushed back to RH with anticipation for what would be next.

next was sharing time. reflecting on the past year. reflecting on our sabbaticals. reflecting on our ministries.

again... not what we were expecting.

the Taco Man came for lunch, which everyone seemed pretty excited about. (even though i’m not a huge Mexican food fan, i did enjoy the Taco Man.)

after lunch, we were told to get into our sabbatical groups for a little contest.
ROCKHARBOR has a tradition (usually at Christmas) where they play Human Shuffleboard on office chairs in the hallway. this was another tradition i’d been looking forward to participating in. turns out, today would be my chance!

however, as Erre began to announce the game, he also announced some changes in the rules. usually, no one is allowed to touch the walls under any circumstances. if you do, you’re disqualified. this means that if you get near a wall, you have to stop yourself so that you can at least keep your distance. furthermore, they would normally line the walls of hall with people to ensure that nobody would go crashing into a wall. not this year though.

this year, Erre and Todd decided (as they were announcing this, i think) that you would be disqualified if you stopped yourself in any way. if you put out an arm or leg to stop yourself from hitting a wall, you were out. everybody thought something didn’t sound right about this, but we went along with it anyway.

i grabbed my chair and my team nominated me to ride down the hallway. we were fourth to go. we were also the first injury.

as i was hurled down the hallway at breakneck speeds, things were going pretty well. i was traveling quickly and in a straight line. as i began to approach The Commons, things changed. i began to veer to the left.... straight toward an outward sticking corner where Angelina had stopped before me. i was sitting cross-legged on the chair and my knees were sticking out just a bit. there was nothing i could do.

i crashed HARD into the corner and banged up my upper-shin pretty good. in fact, i’m not sure i’ve ever been in that kind of pain before. the wall’s corner was reinforced with metal and my shin indented in by about an inch. there was blood. there was pain. and i was laughing harder than i’ve laughed in a long time. (it was a bit confusing!)

did this stop the game? of course not! and being that i was 4th out of 11 (i think) i got to sit in the hallway as others came hurtling toward me, blood dripping down my leg and all. at one point, Amy Burdick was flying toward me. at the last second, Stacy (who apparently didn’t want to see me injured any further) pulled me out of the way. unfortunately, i was the only thing in between Burdick and the win. she went almost all the way to the main entrance doors and won the whole thing.

the pictures don’t do it justice. the wound is much worse than it looks. you can’t hear 1/2 of the people excited about the game and the other 1/2 pleading for someone to stop it all so that there wouldn’t be any more injuries. (i wasn’t the only one. turns out Tracy Close broke her thumb and will need a cast and surgery and others got slammed into as they sat like lame ducks in the hallway.) poor Carlos (our facilities guy) was pleading for someone to stop this as the hallway was getting torn up from chairs and body parts slamming into it.

yeah... probably wasn’t the best idea. but it was memorable!!!

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afterward, we went across the street and watched “Napoleon Dynamite” in The Box.

not sure why.

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so, all-in-all, Staff Day Away wasn’t away and wasn’t what we’d hoped for. i forgot what Janet and i learned in India... keep your expectations low and you won’t be let down. :-)

oh... and later, Stacy and i went and test drove an M3 for fun. it was pretty awesome!

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"is that Ruby?"

today, the Families Team took me to lunch at Pei Wei for my birthday. it was crazy trying to get 18 people sitting together in there, but somehow, we made it happen! unfortunately, there were no pictures to document this feat.

however... as we were leaving, i saw this poster for a place called “Wonderland Bakery.” there’s a little girl on the poster and i said “wow... she looks a lot like Ruby!” (Debbie Guinn’s granddaughter.) this led to a bit of a disagreement as some believed Ruby to be MUCH cuter than this girl in the poster. we ended up going into the bakery and someone decided to ask the girl behind the counter what the girl in the poster’s name is. “Ruby,” was the answer!

who knew???

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"second week on the job"

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driving to work... my hair was a little out of control!

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"one last birthday celebration (or a good ending to a sad weekend)"

i didn’t take any pictures yesterday at the memorial service because... i guess i was a little distracted and forgot.

today, everyone came over and had dinner and hung out for Brett, Lisa and my birthdays. it was fun to do that with Jody here and everything. it was like old times and was comforting.

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"saying goodbye... part one"

today’s word was supposed to be “test.” we were going to still try to work it in to the day to create a brighter spot, but Stacy got called in to work (which caused untold chaos with the family anyway) and so we didn’t get to do that.

this morning was the graveside service for grandma. mom and dad had asked me to do the service. it was just us so it was a little odd. but with our family, it was, of course, interesting! :-)

Stacy, Megan and i got there before everyone else. Aunt Pam showed up next and my parents, Meri, Martha and Virginia were about 10 minutes late. so, as they walked up, Stacy, Megan, and Pam stood in a line while i held up my Bible and pretended to be finishing the service. as they got closer, i said “amen!” and we all started walking away. we all laughed a bit and then we had to do the service.

i talked about how for us, this was the beginning of a weekend of celebrating who Grandma was to us. i read some verses and we said goodbye. it was short and to the point.

after, we all went to Mimi’s for lunch. later, i picked up Jody up from the airport and we all went up to my parent’s to hang out with the fam, the Corks and the Chandlers. it was exactly what we needed to celebrate who Grandma was.

tomorrow is the memorial service at the house.

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here’s the puzzle clue for today that we didnt’ get to do yet.

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"relax"

word of the day :: “relax”

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i had to do a video shoot for Michael at Biola today, so Stacy came up and picked me up there when i was done. she wouldn’t tell me where we were going, but she said it fit in with the theme of “relax.”

we drove for a while and pulled up at this small strip mall in San Gabriel. at first i was a bit confused... and then i saw it. the sign for a Chinese Foot Massage place. i freakin’ love foot massages!

and this place only cost $15 for an hour! they soak your feet in tea water for a half hour (whilst they massage your back, arms, shoulders and scalp) and then massage your feet for a half hour. yeah... it was pretty amazing. and all for $15!!!!

unfortunately, it was so relaxing that we forgot to take pictures of the place. (crap!)

anyway, when we got back tonight, Stacy made me try on the Biola sweatshirt she got me on Monday. i hung my head in shame for betraying Pepperdine and allowed her to take a picture.

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"simple"

today’s word was “simple.” it was a relaxing day and Stacy gave me a picture frame.

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aside from this week being my birthday week, at
ROCKHARBOR it’s also been what we’ve been calling “seek week.” you see, this weekend we’re launching the new “awakening” vision for the next year. but a few weeks ago, Todd felt like God was saying that we needed to really hand the new vision over to Him in prayer. so, he and the Strat Team called for a week of prayer. everyone on staff was asked to do the bare minimum this week as far as work is concerned. prayer meetings were called every day at 6 am, noon and 7 pm. the entire community was invited to the prayer meetings. also, we had people in The Centre all day every day for anyone who needed prayer.

to be honest, i didn’t think people were going to get into it. i couldn’t have been more wrong. i haven’t made it to any of the 6 am meetings, but the noon meetings have had a couple hundred people at them (people coming on their lunch breaks) and the evening meetings have all had around 1,000 people! it’s been pretty amazing. and we’ve seen some pretty amazing stuff.

tonight was the highlight of the week (so far) for me. the theme of tonight was prayer for our families. Michelle and Roger led a time of directed prayer for the families of our nation, community and church. but the best was when Michelle led the parents in a time of praying blessings over their children. parents all over the room were looking their children in the eyes, telling them how much they loved them and praying for them. it was incredible.

i prayed with one family where the mom was looking her 9 year old in the eyes and telling her she loved her and praying over her. as she finished, her seven year old daughter (who was adopted from Iran last year) looked at her mom and said “mommy, bless me... bless me now!” the mom was crying. the daughters experienced the love of their mother and the love of God. and this was happening with dozens of families all over The Centre.

one thing that happens quite often with our Families team is that was have to “afterglow” (as Michelle calls it). basically, it just means that when we have an event or a cool experience, our team just feels the need to sit around and talk about it and revel in the greatness of the moment. tonight, some of us decided to do this at Norm’s. so, we all headed down to Norm’s and had some late night greasy food and laughed a lot.

it was perfect.

it was simple.

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oh... and for some reason, as we were leaving, there were two middle-aged men playing football in the parking lot of Norm’s at 1.00 am. weird.

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"memories"

today was my birthday... 30 years! holy old.

today’s word was “memories” and this was the puzzle i got...

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when i got to work, she’d decorated my workspace. as you probably know, i have been collecting the Mountain Dew Green Label Art bottles. Stacy passed out cans of Dew to a bunch of people in the office and asked them to decorate them and creat our own
ROCKHARBOR Label Art collection. it was a pretty cool idea and i got some fairly creative entries.

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after work, we got in Stacy’s car and drove for a while not knowing where we were going. in the end, we found ourselves in Santa Monica where we met Megan for dinner at Houston’s on 3rd Street. i’d never been there before, so i was pretty excited. (and the food was excellent!)

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after dinner, we walked around 3rd Street and saw the coolest dog tricks i’ve ever seen. (check out the Jack Russell on the skateboard!)

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while we were walking around 3rd Street, i got a text from Katie saying “Happy Birthday.” when i texted back that we were here, she asked if she and Alec could come and see us. i said, “of course!” and so we got to hang out with them too!

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all-in-all... an excellent birthday!
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"starting new"

first, i weighed in this morning.

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today’s words from Stacy were “Starting New.” i found this puzzle in my car. at the front desk was a Biola Sweatshirt as today was my first day teaching at Biola University.

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i’m teaching two classes at Biola this semester. the first is an internship class and the second is an evangelism and discipleship class. today was my first day and it was pretty freakin’ awesome!

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"starting bad and ending well"

i woke up this morning to the ringing of my phone. before i answered, somehow i just knew...

Grandma Jeanne had passed away.

now, it’s not like we didn’t see it coming... we did. in fact, over the past few years, we’d gotten used to being told “she’s only got a day or two left,” but then she’d always make some miraculous recovery and be home in a day or two.

fortunately, this wasn’t like any of those times. there was no traumatic episode or rush to the hospital. she simply went peacefully in the night.

after i got the news, i still had to go and work at church. after church, i was supposed to go sailing with Michael Anthony, Kit and Tommy. however, given the events of the day, i headed up to the house to be with my family. we spent the afternoon eating (a lot) and talking and laughing. it was good to be together.

Stacy stayed home today because she had planned something for tonight to kick off my birthday week. when i got back to my place around 5.30, she was in the kitchen preparing a dinner for me. i took a quick nap and when i got up she had finished cooking. but then things got a little weird.

dinner was ready, but she just kept talking instead of serving the food. then the doorbell rang. it was Tommy. he said that he was driving back from the marina (they went sailing without me) and had a birthday present he wanted to drop off. (a signed copy of his old Basix cd... best present ever!) he gave it to me... we laughed... he said he didn’t want to interrupt our “romantic dinner”... and then he kept talking. then the doorbell rang again. it was Timmy.

i knew that Timmy had taken my place on the sailing trip and so, i assumed that he must have been parking the car or waiting in the car for Tommy and had gotten sick of waiting. but as we’re talking, Stacy reaches into a cabinet and pulls out a whole bowl of popcorn. this confused me a bit. just then, the front door opened again and in came more people. it was a reverse surprise party! (very creative)

the title of the party was “the one where matt turns 30” (just like the “Friends” episode) and was mostly like a kid’s birthday party. we had hats, toys and even a piñata! it was pretty awesome.

at the end of the night, Stacy gave me a gift that it took me a while to understand. (i’m slow like that.) it was a series of picture frames each with a word for each day of the coming week. these were to be hints of what that day would hold. the words were “surprise” (for today), “starting new,” “memories,” “simple,” “relax,” and “test.” i’m excited to see what she’s got planned!

here are the pictures from the party...

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"stacy's back..."

Stacy came back from her trip and we spent a night in after church tonight.

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"a new photo"

as you probably know, i edit our Family Time Curriculum at ROCKHARBOR. as i was doing this month’s edition, i realized that the picture of me that we’ve been using in it was from my pre-weight watchers days. it was time for a new headshot for a thinner matt. this is it. (though in the curriculum it’s cropped down to just a headshot.)

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also, today i accepted a job as an editor/writer for David C. Cook on the project between ROCKHARBOR and Cook. so, now i have three jobs! crazy!
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"a night at home with Rambo"

Stacy went on a girls surf trip to San Diego for a few days, so i stayed in tonight and watched the newest Rambo movie. very violent. very good.

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"waking up with the kids"

they’re just so cute

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"another birthday celebration and a sleepover"

first things first...

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tonight, we had another birthday get-together thing at my parents...

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afterwards, Stacy and i took the kids back to my place and had a sleepover! Chino and i made my room into the boys room and Stacy and Nani made the guest room into the girls room. it was way fun!

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"a birthday bash and a tour of the 3000 building"

today, we went over to my uncle Vaughn’s to celebrate Lorenzo (my newest little cousin), Beau, me, Meri and my dad’s birthdays.

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Kaela was thrilled to see me!

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not a bad view from their back porch!

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then, i took Stacy over for a quick tour of the new 3000 building.

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"construction update and my video library"

it’s been a while since i’ve shown you all the progress on the construction downstairs. it’s all coming along pretty amazingly. almost done actually!

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also, you may (or may not) be aware of my movie collecting fetish. the closet of my guest bedroom/office is pretty much my video library and it needed to be sorted a bit today.

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"RA with Kirscher and Wii Fit with Stacy"

tonight, Kirsch came down and went to dinner with us at RA. i love that place! (sushi and Mountain Dew™... great combo!)

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then, Stacy and i went back and had a little Wii Fit workout. (i’m not very good at the heading soccer balls game... but i’m really good at the hoola-hoop game. and that’s a little weird because in reality, i can’t hoola-hoop to save my life.)

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"i love me some Pinkberry!"

title pretty much says it all!

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"dinner with Nani and my parents at Islands"

tonight, we took Leilani from Erin so she could have one night with one kid and get a little break. i picked her up and met everyone at Islands for dinner. she was so freakin’ cute! we were singing songs in the car together based on the names of people that she can say and she was trying to read to me from some picture book she had in the back seat.

at dinner, as you’ll see, my dad tried on my sunglasses. i’m not sure why.

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"Disneyland disappointments and 31 sized jeans"

we really wanted to go on the new Toy Story ride at DCA tonight... but by the time we go there, DCA was closed. very disappointing.

we started to wait in line for Space Mountain, but it was ridiculously long and slow so we bailed, hit up Astro Blasters and went shopping.

i bought a new pair of jeans at Quiksilver. they were 32s which is pretty amazing. but the crazier thing is, i fit into the 31s! however, they weren’t really practical as they were cutting off the blood supply to my legs. but i got in them and i got them buttoned and everything!

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"weighing in and visiting Ted"

if you know me, you know that i do two things every week.

i weigh-in as part of my weight watchers experiment...

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and i go to counseling with Ted. people sometimes ask me, “what does Ted look like?” well, today we were doing some scheduling for the coming month and i had my phone out so that i could check my calendar and i snuck a quick shot of Ted. shhh... don’t tell!

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"on stage with Stacy"

Stacy was teaching in Studio K today. she had the kids drawing the story as she told it. it was pretty cool. i took some pics.

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these are the celebrate stations i designed this summer. we have them in every area of family ministries. the idea is, when God’s been doing something that you want to celebrate, you grab a rock out of the basket on the side, write something on the rock and place it on top of the station. it’s been really cool to see our families doing this together.

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oh... and the Joker got Stacy.

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"the annual YLFC car show"

there was something that, for some odd reason, drew me back to the car show this year. i don’t know if it’s because i planned it one year or i’ve been going for several years now, but for some reason, it’s the one Friends event i keep going back to. fortunately, i’ve been lucky and have only been running into people that i wanted to see. (yes... there are those that i’d rather not see.)

anyway, it ended up being a really fun night and i got to hang out with Letty and Savana a bit more. plus, i got to see Stuart, Jay, Victoria, Tori, Kaysie, the Service Team, Sabrina, Bri, the Hambright’s, the Haines’, the Lockard’s and a bunch of other people i don’t get to see enough of anymore.

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"naps, nose rings and birthdays"

so, since we were celebrating my dad and sister’s birthdays today (even though their birthdays are on Sunday), we decided we’d get my dad something that he keeps saying he wants. see, he always makes fun of Stacy’s nose ring and jokes that my mom should get one. so we got her a fake one. (i tried it on too.)

he laughed, though not as much as i’d hoped for.

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"she wears it well"

Nani wore my hat today... she’s too freakin’ cute.

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"last days and helium sticks"

so, as you may or may not know, i’m going to be teaching a few classes at Biola in the fall. of course, the irony of this is not lost on anyone who knows me and knows that i’ve always made fun of Biola. but there are two reasons that i’ve decided to do this.

first, i’ve been asked to help change some of the very things i’ve made fun of. (not all of them... but some of them.)

second, the classes that i’m teaching are in areas that i’ve been personally exploring. the first class is an Evangelism and Discipleship class where we’re going to look at what it even means to be a Christian and what kind of response we can have to a God who loves us the way He does. of course, this relates directly to my blog from last month (“
my significant insignificance and maybe too much information”).

anyway, the reason i bring this up is that it became the subject of our entire retreat here. i got to test out some of my ideas and thoughts on these kids and they loved it and we had some great conversations. i’m excited to get into the classroom and give this stuff a go. it’ll be cool because we’ll all be on a journey together discovering the same things instead of my simply standing and lecturing and giving the “right answers.”

today was the last day of the retreat here and we looked at ourselves in the context of history and God’s big story. it was a great sendoff for all of us. but before we go, we had to complete the annual tradition of playing Helium Stick.

if you don’t know what Helium Stick is, you have to try it some time. get some thin bamboo sticks (you can get a bag of 5 at Home Depot for like a buck) and have 4-6 people get in a group. hold the stick out at about shoulder level and have them gather on both sides. they can use one finger (their pointer) which must be facing up with the stick laying on top of it and must be straight out (not crooked). the group has to lower the stick to the ground without letting anyone’s fingers come off the stick at any point. if someone’s finger comes off even for a second, the group must start over.

lower a stick to the ground together. sounds easy! ha ha. sadly, nobody succeeded this year.

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"talent show?"


tonight, we had our annual “talent” show. (we use the word talent very loosely.)

we gave each group of kids a few random objects and gave them one minute to come up with a three minute skit (which we would judge from our couch). needless to say... they weren’t good. though some were entertaining!

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"playing cards and sitting in the heat"

not much to say here.

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"going back to Ari"

hmmm... maybe doesn’t work as well as Cali.

anyway, back to Arizona for the Service Team Leadership Retreat!


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i found this application in the iTunes app store where you can “Joker-ise” your friends.

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"a new store and a new building"

while we were in Havasu, the Urban Ranch Market opened downstairs and they began giving tours of the new tower that was just finished. (it has the first rooftop pool in Orange County.)

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okay, so it has the first rooftop pool. it’s small and disappointing but has a nice view. and the market is a great idea, but it’s all organic and fancy and doesn’t really have stuff that i would want (including Mountain Dew).
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"cleanin' up and goin' home"

the title pretty much says it all.

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"in the land of hot dirt"

we have decided that the state motto for Arizona should be “Arizona... the land of hot dirt.”

what do you think? catchy huh?

anyway... we’re here in Havasu for a couple of days. i’m doing the annual Service Team Leadership Retreat up here next week and wanted to come up here and get things ready. (also, i wanted to play on the sweet new Sea-Doos.)

this morning, i was hungry and wanted an Uncrustable sandwich. i didn’t, however, want to wait 20-30 minutes for the thing to defrost. fortunately, when it’s 110 degrees outside, 3 minutes on the driveway will do it!

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we had to apply the identification numbers to the Sea Doos before we could take them out. Alex did the ones in the first picture and i did the ones in the second. i think mine look better, but he disagrees.

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it may be hot dirt... but it is beautiful hot dirt sometimes.

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tonight, we went to Mudsharks for dinner and then discovered something new in Havasu. a few months ago, the WalMart here shut down. now, i hate WalMart. i hate it with a passion. it’s trashy and dirty and.... i just don’t like it. anyway, when the WalMart shut down it was because they were opening a WalMart SuperCenter down the road. tonight, we dropped by and i was a little surprised to find that it’s freaking amazing!!! of course, it’s brand new and a year from now it will probably be crap, but this place is nice and huge and has everything.

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while we were at WalMart... i found that someone figured out how to bottle me!

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"visiting the cousins"

Stacy and i went over to Bekie’s tonight to hang out. i got a few shots of Beau.

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"comic books and the end of the world"

so, Phil Hotsenpiller and Rob Liefeld have been working on their graphic novel about the end of the world. today, i spent a few hours proofing it.

check it out at
www.armageddonnow.net

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"weigh-in and game night"

first things first...

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tonight, we had game night with Ang and Alex and played Apples to Apples. fun game!

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"a baby shower at my house?"

yeah... i’m not sure either. somehow, Cori Cook ended up being in charge of throwing Brandi a baby shower and somehow that shower ended up at my house today.

i let them in, took some pictures (to document the odd, ridiculousness of the event) and got the hell out before the thing started.

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note to self... no more baby showers at The H.
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"kids, scout and RA"

today we went to see the kids, visit the dogs and have some dinner at RA.

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"and today we head home"

it’s back to Cali today!

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Megan is clearly upset that i’m leaving her

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"Cheeseburgers for the last night"

it was our last night...

so we went to Cheeseburgers in Paradise. (the burgers at Leilani’s were better!)

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"they had lunch at Leilanis..."

...i don’t know where i was.

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"breakfast at Castaways, a walk to the Whaler and dinner at Outback"

first, we had breakfast at Castaways Cafe...

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then, i walked down to the Whaler for some sun...

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then, we had Meri’s last dinner with us at Outback Steakhouse

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"the day we've been waiting for for 23 years!"

it’s true. i saw it for myself with my very own eyes. it happened.

Megan is working.

no... seriously. like a real job.

tonight we went to Leilani’s and Megan was our waitress. just imagine the fun we had bossing her around. (and she didn’t even spill anything!)

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Stephanie works there too.

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"i wish the food was as good as the view"

we tried a new restaurant tonight. amazing view and beautiful place! too bad the food was really expensive and not very good. (i think that’s how they cover the cost of the real estate.) oh... and our old friend Charly (Megan’s friend who was a student when i was teaching at Lutheran High) came to stay for a few days.

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there’s a good one!

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"guitar hero and couch time"

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"Whaler construction and dinner at Kimo's"

went down to the Whaler today... they’re doing a lot of construction on that place! (it needs it too... getting kinda ghetto.)

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dinner at Kimo’s... (we took lots of pictures with the last one being absolutely the best Barnes family picture ever taken)

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"Ruth's Chris is good!"

kids only dinner at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse. mmmm!

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"weighing in and i hate United Airlines!"

first things first...

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so, a few months back, my favorite airline for flying to Maui went out of business. because of this, i was forced to find a new one and ended up on United out of LAX. this was a mistake.

first, they have a 45 minute before boarding check-in policy and i missed it by two minutes because i had been waiting in their ridiculously long lines for 40 minutes. not only would they not let me on, but they were incredibly rude to me about it.

second, when i talked to the United rep on the phone a few days ago, he told me that i needed to be “as close to 50 lbs. as possible” with my luggage. apparently my bag was 56 lbs. and so they charged me $100 and basically told me i was stupid. when i told them what the man on the phone had said, the lady called me a liar. awesome.

anyway, after dealing with all of that, i finally got to get on the next plane and deal with their equally rude flight attendants.

i hate United. i will NEVER be using them again. (you shouldn’t either.)

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at least i had a really cute and funny two year old sitting next to me on the flight. he was either talking to me or sleeping the whole time and he never cried once. the perfect child. (of course, he did crap himself while he slept and mom didn’t want to wake him up so i got to deal with that smell for an hour or so, but it was already a pretty crappy flight so what was a little more?)

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oh, by the way... gas in Hawaii... mucho expensivo.

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"autistic kids, goodbye lunches and the cutest three year old ever"

we had an autistic four year old at church today who could read and write better than most second graders! it was pretty impressive. and then he used the magnets to spell the word “gay” and went around yelling it. we’re not sure why. eventually, i convinced him to spell something else and he changed “gay” into “guys.” i don’t think he put the two words together in his mind.

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after church, we had a goodbye lunch for one of our interns, Brianna. sad to say goodbye... good to eat at Haus of Pizza!

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finally, it was off to Lori Root’s house for a get-together with our old (and soon to be returning to Orange County) friend, Debbie Guinn. her grand daughter, Ruby was there and she is ADORABLE!

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"i wanted to believe"

today, i got up and went to see the new X-Files movie... “The X-Files: I Want to Believe.” i wanted to believe it would be awesome. i now hate Chris Carter for destroying what he so perfectly started years ago. (in other words, the movie SUCKED!)

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"new laws and cute kids"

i spent a lot of time in the car and on the phone today. of course, i use my bluetooth headset all the time now thanks to the new California State Hands-Free law!

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and i stopped by to see the kids.

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"meetings and a departure"

today, we had more meetings with Janet and Sharron (they’re here to meet with us for two weeks) and then i had to take Stacy to the airport to send her off to Romania. (strangely, we forgot to take pictures of this.... but i took a picture of the terminal on the way out because i thought of it as i was leaving!)

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"the family meets the Cook people"

we had our first all-in meeting with Janet and Sharron from David C. Cook. it was awesome. (and the picture at the bottom is directly quoted from a conversation the occurred.)

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"where a kid can be a kid"

today was Leilani’s second birthday. well, actually it wasn’t quite yet, but we went to Chuck E. Cheese’s to celebrate her upcoming birthday since Stacy will be in Romania.

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also, i stopped by Fashion Island today and was shocked to see the the line for the iPhone was still going strong!!! (the people in line were, i’m sure, thrilled that i was taking pictures of them waiting for the very thing i was taking pictures of them with!)

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oh yeah... and i weighed in today.

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"back for more"

Stacy and i went to see The Dark Knight today.

it was still awesome.

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"an early morning and a Dark Knight"

since we missed the big opening on Thursday night, Tyler, Alex, Ang and i went to see The Dark Knight this morning at 11:00. (Stacy thought sleeping was more important.)

it was amazing.

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"the quest... day five! (and a celebration)"

today was the last day of The Quest VBS. it was awesome!

for those of you who don’t know, VBS (Vacation Bible School) is what churches traditionally do for kids for one week during the summer. pretty much every church in America does it, and we’re no exception. (next year we might be, but that’s another story.) but this year, we decided that VBS needed a little bit of an overhaul.

typically, a VBS will have a variety of stations for kids to go to all within the theme of the week. so, the theme might be something tropical and cliche like “Living in the Son” (did you catch the ever-so-clever play on words there? Christians can be so ridiculously lame sometimes.) and each station (Bible story, crafts, worship, rec, memory verse, etc...) will have something to do with the theme. and... that’s pretty much it. not too exciting.

we decided to take it further. yeah... we have a theme (“The Quest” in case you haven’t been paying attention. it’s sorta a hybrid of “Lost,” “Indiana Jones,” and “The Goonies.”). but the theme isn’t what ties everything together (though it does play out in every area too.) we start each day with a skit (written by Stacy and acted to perfection by myself and my fellow actors). the skit sorta sets up a question or idea for the day in very broad strokes. next, at the Treasure Trove of Truth (Bible Story Station), my character gives the kids a little behind the scenes look at the quest that the skit characters are on. (i do my whole part for that station on video and we tell the kids that i’m video podcasting each night on the island. they love it.) during this time, i reveal the “ancient truth” for that day. (this is like our “bottom line” on the weekends. it’s the one thing we want to make sure they walk away knowing, understanding and remembering.) as soon as they learn the ancient truth, they get a chance to respond to it in a unique way. (some days it might be through worship or prayer or sharing stories... they actually get to decide how they want to respond.) after that, they head to small groups where Erika put together and awesome small group booklet that gives them some things to discuss about applying the ancient truth to their lives. the “Artifact Creation Station” (crafts) lets them create something (usually straight out of the skit) that they can take home to remind them of the ancient truth. the “Station of Mystery” gives them a chance to discover a Bible verse that reinforces the ancient truth. (this station is new and was completely different every day. it was awesome!) admittedly, the games station was pretty much just fun games that didn’t tie in too much. but that’s okay... fun is important too.

anyway, today was awesome because we got to see the kids really responding to what they’d discovered this week. they knew all the ancient truths and some of them even shared stories of how they were applying them to their lives already.

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then, to celebrate the past year in the lives of our families, we ended the week with our annual Family Celebrate Experience. we had TK Burger, dancing, etc... and it was awesome. but holy crap... i did a lot of walking today. (i try to get 10,000 steps on a normal day. check out my pedometer for today!)

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"the quest... day three!"

here’s a group of kids crossing the street to go to the Artifact Creation Station (aka- crafts). now, what you don’t see here, is that right after i took this picture, the kids noticed me and started to get excited. all of us from the morning skits became instant celebrities with these kids. (it was really funny actually.) my character’s name is Jack, so everywhere i go i hear “Jack! sign my shirt!” or “Jack! did you really crash the plane?” or “Jack, let me wear your hat!” it’s been a lot of fun!

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then, tonight we went and had dinner with the kids.

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"the quest... day two!"

this is a picture from the “Station of Mystery.” i’d tell you what it is... but that would seem to ruin the point.

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"the quest begins!"

today was day one of The Quest VBS at ROCKHARBOR church! (and Erin brought the kids down to see the opening session.)

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"small chairs and late nights at Denny's™"

tonight we finished setting up the Centre for VBS after the last service. we used these little chairs from the Preschool Playhouse to mark off the different areas. i like sitting in them.

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afterwards, we were exhausted and we had to be back in just a few short hours. so what did we do? we went to Denny’s™! in hindsight, not the best choice, but it was still fun (even though the service was awful and so was the bacon).

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"a swim with the kiddies and getting my iPhone!"

i finally got my iPhone 3G today!!! also, Stacy’s mom was in town, so they brought the kids up to my parent’s to go swimming.

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"iPhone day... the sequel (and a funny-raiser)"

i went to get my iPhone 3G today (of course i did!). the line was almost as long as last year, but this year they’re making you activate in-store and they’re having some real problems. they let the first people in at 8.00 am and by 8.45, those people hadn’t left the store and nobody else had been let it.

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so, then i went to the AT&T store and they were already sold out.

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tonight was the Team RO “funny-raiser” (a fundraiser featuring an improv comedy group). it was fun!

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"VBS video shoot"

so, part of the VBS fun is that our characters from the skit are also in some video segments for another station. tonight, we shot those at my place and had a little photo shoot by the pool.

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"a new haircut and building a temple"

today, i got a new haircut. but not just another haircut... my stylist (Laurel) wanted to have some fun, so i let her. she called it a complete hair makeover. anyway, it’s totally different for me but i love it!

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and then i went over to
ROCKHARBOR to check out the set Kit is building for VBS. check out the size of that temple!

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"dropping the lbs"

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"VBS skit rehearsal"

today was our first rehearsal for VBS. this is gonna be fun!

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"a different kind of 4th"

normally, on the 4th of July, we have our annual Barnez Family Extravaganza at either my uncle’s house or my parent’s. however, this year, everyone was out of town so we had to improvise.

somehow, that meant spaghetti at my parent’s. anyway, afterward we went back to my place to watch the fireworks from my balcony.

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"a new guitar hero and a trip to the d-land"

today, i picked up the new “Guitar Hero: Aerosmith.” it’s fun, but i wish they had a U2 version!

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later, we headed out to Disneyland!

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"on the phone again"

i was on the phone a lot today... so i took a picture or two of that.

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"filling in for Liz"

our receptionist, Liz, is out of town and so i volunteered to fill one of her shifts this morning.

she has the hardest job at the church... for sure.

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"breaking into the 100s!"

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"grad party delayed"

so, even though i graduated over a month ago, we had a little grad open house today.

it was fun and i was really glad that the people who came, came... but there were a lot of people who RSVP’d that they were coming and didn’t. that kinda sucked cuz the party was pretty much just an excuse to see people i don’t get to see a lot and most of the people who came i see pretty often. (except for Darci and Summer and Jess and Chad, of course!)

anyway, thanks to those who came!

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"i love LA... though i'm not sure why"

today i had to run some errands up in LA. i haven’t been up there in a while, but there’s something about LA that i really do just love. i have no idea why though. i mean... it’s dirty and trashy and everything’s old and falling apart. but there’s something about it that i love!

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unfortunately, right after i took this picture, i dropped my iPhone and the glass shattered. lame!
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"a shanty in the office and a table read"

our graphic designer, Tyler, has been out of town for a bit. apparently, up in Cele-Com, they like to do things to each others offices when they’re gone. well, Keith Huckaby took that to a new level by actually building a shanty/office around Tyler’s desk while he was gone. it’s pretty freakin’ amazing!

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i guess that’s what it takes to get a door around here!

then, tonight, we a had a table-read for the skits for VBS.

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"an early morning at the Pacific Whey"

this morning, we had our lead team meeting at Pacific Whey Cafe in Newport.

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"down a pound"

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"white doves and birthday parties"

today, there was a white dove on my balcony.

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at least, i think that’s what it was. maybe it was a white pigeon. either way, i thought it was weird cuz it was completely white.

later, we took Erin out for her birthday. we went to Koji’s. the service was horrible, but we had a good time.

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"games at church"

i taught at church tonight... it was on humility. everyone seems to think that’s funny, but i’m very proud of my humility! anyway, the kids played some games too and since i didn’t get pictures of me teaching, that’s what you get!

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"another day missed"

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"double date"

tonight, we went on a double date with Dawn. dinner at Ra and The Incredible Hulk... and Pinkberry. a good night!

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"finishing my independent study"

today, i worked to finish my independent study. but, it’s not just that... when i finished the independent study... i finished grad school! i’m officially done!

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"puppets and a grad party"

Michelle’s about to lead a trip to Panama and so she ordered some ethincally diverse puppets to take with her team. they arrived today and we had a little fun in the office.

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and then, that night, we had Chantel Anthony’s grad party. (the pictures from my iPhone did not come out well.)

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"crap... gained weight"

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"where people come from"

today, we met Michelle’s parents. always interesting to see where people come from! plus, her mom has amazing hair.

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"the cutest kids"

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"a big meeting and a reunion of friends"

so, today was a long-awaited day for a few reasons.

first, this morning was our meeting with the people from David C. Cook publishing. Michelle has been talking with them for a bit about them publishing some of our stuff. well, last month she went out to meet with them in Colorado and it couldn’t have gone better. they want to partner with us to create their new curriculum and focus. today, we got to meet with Janet from Cook and hear about some of the details. to sum it up, it was AMAZING. they actually want to send a team of writers to live in California and work with us. we’d be providing the vision and feedback as they write the curriculum. i mean... this is huge.

at the beginning of the meeting, Janet was explaining what they were wanting to do (team up with a church, etc...). however, she was being very vague about whether or not they’d decided it was us or if they were still looking. so, Michelle finally asked the question, “so, are you courting us or are you asking us to marry you?” this picture is of Janet in her response to that question. she immediately got down on one knee and we all started laughing.

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needless to say, we were (and are) all very excited about what this means for us. it’s gonna be pretty freakin’ amazing!

the second thing that made today a day worth waiting for, was that today was our “formerly friends” reunion at my place.

David and Angela Robles (and their little girl, Rylee), Jennifer Stowell, Melissa Kirscher, Kit and Gina Rae, Dana Van Egdom (her husband Jeff couldn’t make it), Stacy and i all got together for the first time since my birthday last year (September 9th, if you were wondering). it was so great to catch up and find out what everyone’s been up to. it’s amazing to see how God is using us all in different, but awesome ways all over California and the world.

tonight, we ate, caught up, played, ate, swam, ate and talked about what an amazing group of friends God brought together and how we need to be intentional about/open to how God might use us together in the future. it was a great night and i don’t remember the last time i laughed so hard!

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"a playdate in the park and 2nd one-year anniversary, part two"

we took the kids to the park this morning... so cute...

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and then tonight I took Stacy to Javier’s at the Spectrum for dinner...

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"matching shoes and a trip to Target™"

Michelle and Stacy both got new shoes and they were quite excited about it...

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and tonight we went to Target™ for a little shopping...

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"our second, first anniversary"

today, Stacy and i celebrated one year together... again. (this is the second time we made it one year. we just haven’t done it twice consecutively!)

since i’ve got so much going on, Stacy planned our date for tonight. i’m planning one for Thursday night. she took me to a sushi place down on the water in Newport and then to The Melting Pot for dessert. amazing!

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"22 pounds"

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"a cool car at church"

this car was parked in front of the church today. funky.

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"balloon poppin' fun"

tonight, we played a game with the kids in StudioK where they had to pop balloons. you’d be amazed at how kids can find a way to get themselves hurt just by popping balloons.

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"a cousin's graduation"

today, my little cousin Kaela graduated from 8th grade. i’m getting old.

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"planning to celebrate"

tonight, we met at the Reichert’s to plan out our Family Celebration Experience in July and to watch the game. i didn’t watch much of the game.

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"team lunch at Cosi"

today we had lunch at Cosi... i freakin’ love this place! amazing.

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"construction update, dinner with the Chandlers and a cold Vespa ride"

pretty self-explanatory...

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"another weigh-in and a visit with the Corks"

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Sophie and Ella got haircuts... so cute!

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i love them.
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"more kids responding"

i know it’s the same as yesterday, but it was really cool to see kids responding to God like that...

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we also went to dinner with the fam at Islands. i don’t have pics of that though!
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"kids at church and comedy night"

tonight, we started some new things at church with the kids. we created a response area in the back with some crosses where kids can pray, give and write notes of affirmation. but first they built towers out of dixie cups.

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and then, it was comedy night here at The Plaza

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that guy was funny!
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"some consulting and a wedding"

this morning, Michelle and i met with a group of about 25 leaders from Portland who want to know about RH and what we do in Families. it was a lot of fun and they were really into it.

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and then we had Angelina and Alex’s wedding this afternoon...

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even though weddings aren’t my favorite, we had a great night!
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"a chance for change"

Michael Anthony (Michelle’s husband) was recently made the Department Chair of the Christian Education department at Biola. the awesome part is that he’s completely redesigning the program from the ground up and he’s asked me to be involved and to teach some classes next year.

so, today we had our first meeting with a bunch of people to talk about the future of the department and it was pretty awesome.

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"a birthday get together"

Adam’s birthday get-together at Roman Cucina. so good!

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"a new game for the wii"

got me a new wii game!

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"racing and walking"

first... a weigh-in...

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then... a trip to Dromo 1 racing for Alex’s bachelor party...

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and then Stacy and i went for a walk

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"Michelle teaches and Gina and Brianna drink juice boxes"

Michelle taught in The Hub (the high school group) today...

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and then Brianna and Gina were drinking juice boxes in the preschool hallway.

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"construction, a beautiful day and a trip to Yogurtland™"

so, it's been pretty cool/interesting to watch the construction going on outside my building. the third tower is almost done and the shops down below are as well. so, today i took some pictures. (besides, it was BEAUTIFUL today. nice and cool.)

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and tonight, after church, Erica, Stacy and i went to Yogurtland™ for a little post-church snack.

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"a day in without pictures"

so, we pretty much spent the day in today and didn’t take any pictures of it. don’t think of it as a pictureless day as much as a day of nothing represented by an empty space in this blog (aka- i forgot to take a picture today).
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"the return of a childhood hero"

today was the day i've been waiting for for 19 years.... the return of Dr. Jones.

unfortunately, it was good, but great. kinda like Indiana Jones meets the X-Files. (i kept waiting for Mulder and Scully to show up.)

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after that, we stopped by the mall so Stacy could buy some shorts. (this is me waiting at the Quiksilver/Roxy store.)

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"RA for skit writing"

yesterday was a hard day... today was harder. though it ended okay, it was tough.

so, Stacy, Kit, Tommy and i met up at RA to brainstorm ideas for the skits for VBS this summer.

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"an evening with a murderous barber"

today was a rough day in the office. so, as Stacy was out with a friend tonight, Tyler came over and we watched Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street. it's the romantic and beautiful story of a wronged barber who decides to get his revenge by slicing the throats of his clients and allowing the woman who lives downstairs to use the bodies to sell mincemeat pies. (it's a tragedy.)

ah... the romance.

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"a weigh in... early breakfast... and service team time!"

lost a few pounds...

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had an early lead team meeting about some really cool opportunities...

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had lunch with my friend Jorge...

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and then i went to work with my Yorba Linda Service Team friends...

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a good day all-in-all.
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"dinner on the beach"

after a LONG day, Stacy and i hopped on the Vespa, picked up some Pei Wei and headed down to Corona del Mar for dinner and a walk.

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"the return of the Hero"

i hadn't played Guitar Hero in months... so i busted it out today.

i'm still awesome.

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"a great t-shirt and hanging out with Kirscher... without pictures :-("

first, Stacy bought me a sweet t-shirt...

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um... and then Kirsch came down tonight and had dinner with us, but we didn't take any pictures. that was dumb.
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"office finale"

so we had people come over for The Office season finale but since Tyler didn't come through for me and wear his Dwight outfit, no pictures were taken.

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"dinner at Lucille's"

today we had a Families Lead Team dinner at Lucille's. (amazing food!)

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"capstone day!"

today was a day better than graduation... it was the day of my capstone presentation.

in our program, the capstone project and presentation is the culmination of all the work we've done. mine is a project called "Reflections of Leadership on Popular Culture" and is an instructional resource on using popular culture to teach leadership concepts. (you can download it
here if you'd like to see it.)

anyway, today was my presentation and it went really well! plus, my parents, Stacy, Michelle and some of my other friends got to see what i've been doing for the last two years.

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(Rob Liefeld, Emily Cartaya, Michelle Anthony, Stacy Igarashi, me, Carrie Domen, mom, dad and Dave McIntire)

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"weight gain!?!?!"

i'm up .2 pounds. bummer!

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"mother's day on stage!"

being that it was Mother's Day and i was teaching in Studio K, i thought it would be fitting for mom to come down and teach with me. we did and it was a blast! the kids loved it too.

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after that, we went to see Grandma and then to see the kids.
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"AIDS walk 2008"

ROCKHARBOR went on the OC AIDS Walk. it was cool to be one of the few faith based groups there especially since we were also the second largest group there overall! (of course, it would be hard to beat the AIDS Support Foundation!)

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"a baby and a bonfire"

Nani was SO cute when she fell asleep today...

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and then tonight, we had a kids
ROCK volunteer bonfire.... it was awesome.

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"a very early morning"

i woke up at 4.30 am and couldn't go back to sleep. (bunch of loud snorers in my cabin!)

so, i went for a walk and a drive.

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"RETREAT!!!"

today was our main day at staff retreat. we were up at Ponderosa Pines Camp in Running Springs. i didn't really know what to expect, but it was very cool to hear about how we're going to be approaching the vision of the church ("give yourself away") for the next year. also, we spent some really intentional guided time in prayer.

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plus, i got to hang out with a lot of people i didn't know very well before and even play a little volleyball.

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and then we played spoons (with granola bars instead of spoons) until like 1 am. (and i kicked Michelle's ass at some game called Rubbish.)

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"my desk"

i finished my desk today. and then we left for staff retreat.

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(that's a mountain dew bottle collection, mountain dew truck, jack-in-the-box bobble head, mountain dew license plate, Buddy Christ, MacBook, keyboard and mouse, Dunder Mifflin Mousepad, monitor, Office magnets and Ikea magnetic pen holders.)
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"weigh-in and business cards"

today... i hit the 18 pound mark! only 22 pounds to go.

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also, i got my new business cards and my profile was (finally!) posted on the
ROCKHARBOR website. (click here to check it out... a bit entertaining.)

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"exhausted"

today was thoroughly exhausting. church, interviews, dinner, meetings... i'm tired.

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"in progress... no more!"

for two years, i've been writing "degree in progress" on résumés and applications. well, no more. today was the day... graduation! i am now a double master. (you may reverently bow in accordance.) check out the pics!

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they were taking pictures of us... so i took pictures of them too!

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"a presentation and a hooding"

today was Emily's thesis presentation. she did a great job. amazingly enough, it fit in perfectly with what we've been doing at RH and what the Orange Conference is about. very cool.

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that night, we had our hooding ceremony and banquet. it was great to be able to be there with my friends from the program as well as Stacy and my parents.

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"comin' home!"

back home now! good to be back.

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"dirty south adventures - day four"

the last day of the conference was great. very much confirmed what we're doing at RH and led us to some great conversations about how we can improve ourselves and our contributions. at the last meeting, Louie Giglio spoke about being culturally transcendent and was amazing. here are the pics!

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"dirty south adventures - day three"

today was another great day at the conference. Donald Miller ("Blue Like Jazz") spoke tonight and was fantastic and entertaining. the whole conference so far has been a great confirmation of everything that we're doing at ROCKHARBOR.

but the best part of the day was lunch. i met up with David and Jen for lunch and had a great time eating pizza and catching up. in many ways, i think that our lunch was an answer to prayer. we talked a bit about our old team from Yorba Linda for a while. we had an AMAZING team that was, unfortunately, never allowed to find it's potential. (honestly, if things had gone a little differently, that dream team would, absolutely and unquestionably, be setting the standard for children's and family ministries in this country.) anyway, we realized that we have an amazing resource in each other and that the fact that we all met and got a glimpse of our potential as a team may allow us to do some incredible things together in the future. so, we decided today to be intentional about that and get the team together again sometime to brainstorm for the future. (watch out... there's a good chance we'll be taking over the world soon!)

Michelle's pretty excited that we're probably going to be having lunch with Reggie ("Reg" if you know him) Joyner tomorrow. actually, we all are. it could be a great opportunity for our team.

off to bed!

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"dirty south adventures - day two"

the conference didn't start until tonight, so today we went on some adventures through Atlanta. first, we headed out to Coca-Cola™ World. (don't worry... i felt conflicted about the whole thing and am still a devoted Pepsi™ fan since they make the Dew™.) nevertheless, it was pretty cool! after that, we went for a walk through the Centennial Olympic Park (and it's fountains!) and then went to visit the CNN building. after that, we hit up happy hour at McCormick and Schmick's (or something like that) where a 1/2 pound burger was only $1.95!!!! (amazing!)

after that, we headed back to the convention for the opening session. it was pretty freakin' amazing! i mean... the A/V setup alone was as cool as almost any concert (except U2) that i've been to in the past few years. the worship was great and Reggie Joyner (Reg if you know him!) gave a fantastic new application of the prodigal son parable. (i'm sure i'll be blogging about that at a later date.)

afterward, i met up with Jen Stowell in the lobby of the hotel and we made plans for lunch tomorrow with our old friend, David Robles.

overall... a fantastic day! check out the pics below...

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"dirty south adventures - day one"

Tyler, Tommy, Michelle and i met up with Debbie on a layover in Phoenix and headed out to Atlanta for the Orange Family Ministries Conference. we're already having a ton of fun. (and i'll be adding pictures later too because Michelle has more on her camera.)

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"hospital visit for dad"

dad's ITP came back last week and hit a low yesterday. (personally, i think that God is punishing him for bringing the mustache back.) so, he went back into the hospital. this morning, me, Brett and Dakota went to visit him.

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"chapel time!"

today, we all went and did chapel at Prince of Peace school in Costa Mesa. (dumb name for a school.)

we had fun though!

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and then we went to lunch with the kids.

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"where's my picture?"

i don't know what happened to the picture from this day. i'm not giving up on finding one though.
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"my new printer"

i got a new printer today. that's pretty much the highlight of my day.

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"a day on my back"

i spent most of the day lying down with an icepack on my back... it hurt real bad!

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this is where i spent my time... right there on the couch!
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"monday weigh-in!"

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"back to work and a birthday party!"

today was my first Sunday back after my sabbatical.

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tonight, we had a birthday party for Megan and Nolan at my parent's house. even though my back was in HUGE amounts of pain, i had a lot of fun. (and had my first exposure to vicodin!)

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"new jeans"

my weight loss has reached the point where i had to get me some new jeans! my 36's were just hanging off me so i had to downsize to 34's.

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"sabbatical - day tweleve... the final day"

today was the last day of sabbatical. we met with Stacy Scott and debriefed our sabbatical. at the end of the meeting, she gave us our final envelope with our last assignment. the assignment was to take the $20 bill inside our envelopes and go do something for ourselves. the rules were that we had to do it today and turn in our receipts on Monday.

so, Stacy decided to surprise me and took me up to the Huntington in Pasadena. it was beautiful! even with my back in the pain that it's been in (i hurt it on the retreat), it was a pretty awesome day.

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"sabbatical - day eleven at APU and Disneyland"

i went to my final capstone class tonight and then to dinner with Katie and Emily afterward.

on the way home, Stacy called and let me know that she was with Chino and some friends at Disneyland. i wasn't going to go, but then i decided to surprise her. she had said that she was going on Pirates and so when she go there, i was waiting for her.

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"sabbatical - day ten and the stations of the cross"

it's been interesting having this retreat at a Catholic mission. obviously, i'm not Catholic and have never been able to understand Catholicism much. out of curiosity, i looked into it at one time. i wanted to understand where all of the rituals, rules and traditions of the Catholic church had come from. (since i couldn't find them anywhere in the Bible.) it was interesting to find that many of them were adapted from other mystical religions because Constantine (who adopted Christianity for the Roman Empire) didn't want to make it too hard for people to convert. so, they kept things like rosary beads, a hierarchy with bishops and a pope and certain prayers and just changed the names and meanings to fit Christianity. (obviously, the very simplified version... but still pretty accurate.) anyway, that was always hard for me to swallow as it seems like the perfect example of taking a simple relationship and offering of salvation and turning it into religion with rules and traditions that actually have nothing to do with the relationship that was originally offered. however, it's true that God can take anything and use it for good. i've seen that in the last day here.

one thing that the Catholic church loves is its iconography. this is where we get the prevalent image of the cross. (we don't even question it. but we don't put up little electric chairs or bullets to remember others who have died. for some reason, displaying the method of torture and death when it involves Christ is considered normal and even spiritual.) the Catholic church took this instrument of death and turned it into a symbol of sacrifice and beauty. it's also a symbol of remembrance.

this morning, we were given a piece of paper with the 14 stations of the cross listed on it. each one had a short description and something to think and pray about. around a field, behind the mission, there is a road with the 14 stations of the cross. we were asked to walk the road, stopping at each station to read and pray. i was a little averse to this at first. i was wrong to be.

God took something out of someone else's religious background and used it in my life in a real way. the stations of the cross had/have me dealing with and processing issues of sacrifice, forgiveness, loss, injustice, failure, the needs of others, kindness and selfishness. it really became a time of intense self-reflection. it also highlighted a few things in my life that i need to deal with and work through with Him.

anyway, if you get a chance to do something like that... something that feels out of the ordinary or a little unfamiliar, don't pass it up. God can use it to change you in amazing ways.

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also, we had breakfast and saw the largest rose i've ever seen in my life.

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"sabbatical - day nine and a retreat"

today we started on a retreat for our sabbatical. Stacy, Laura, Mike, Andrew and i met Nick Taylor down at Mission San Luis Rey for a great day of spiritual guidance and free time. it was an awesome time of getting to know each other, share our lives with one another, pray and have some solitude. in the afternoon, Nick led us through a great spiritual direction exercise.

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in the evening, we were told that we could do whatever we wanted, but we had to do it as a group. so, we decided to go into downtown Oceanside. we walked on the pier and had dessert at the DQ.

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the cool thing was, we had the entire mission to ourselves at night. (and it's a pretty big place.) it felt pretty spooky, so we went for a midnight walk in the graveyard where a black cat followed us around the entire time. it was awesome.
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"sabbatical - day eight with a weigh-in, a visit from the kids and a walk in the park"

weighed in this morning...

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then i went over to Stacy's and hung out with the kids for a bit...

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and then i decided to go to the park and read my sabbatical book reading. so, i jumped on The Hornet (my Vespa) and headed down to the park. it was beautiful there.

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"sabbatical - day seven at a new church with an old friend"

each sabbatical group is being assigned another church to visit on during their sabbatical. we were assigned the Crystal Cathedral's contemporary service. however, by the time i picked Stacy up, two of the other members of our group had cancelled on us. so, we decided to drive up to Simi Valley and visit our friend Jen at Discovery Church.

we had a lot of fun getting to see Jen in her new job up there and hang out with her all day. (that's her on stage there.)

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"sabbatical -day six and strangely curly hair"

i woke up this morning and had unusually curly hair. Stacy thought this was entertaining.

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afterward, we went out and took a ride on the new Sea-Doos. it was pretty amazing!

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"sabbatical - day five and a windy day in Havasu"

last night, after everyone came over for The Office, Stacy, Ashley and i headed out to Havasu.

unfortunately, it was so windy that we couldn't go out and use the new Sea Doos today.

so, we played Uno, went to Walmart and watched movies. (we ate at Mudsharks again too!)

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"sabbatical - day four and completing the corner"

one thing you have to understand about the sabbaticals is that they've given us some great ideas and structure for our two weeks. however, Nick (our pastor in charge of the sabbaticals) made it clear that he wanted us to make the most of our sabbatical time and that some days, that might mean doing our own thing. i say this only to say that if i don't follow a theme for a day or something, it's okay!

anyway, today was a day of rest for us. we were encouraged to really rest... whatever that means for us. well, i ended up doing a little shopping and then some housework. but, in all honesty, for me it was restful.

i have this corner in my place that had two benches to sit on and nothing else. i've been looking for some stuff to fill out the corner and, today, i found what i was looking for.

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after i put up the shelves and the painting... we met Michael and Michelle for dinner at The Chophouse. Michael had a really good week that is going to work out well for me as well. he was promoted to the position of Department Chair for the Christian Education department at Biola. (the part that is good for me is that he wants me to teach and help him design a few classes next year!) pretty sweet!

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"sabbatical - day three and shopping for a bedspread"

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today had me worried. our assignment was to meet in the green room at RH today at 10.30am. i thought it was going to be some stupid icebreaker games or a project to work on. but i was really wrong.

when we got there, our Lead Pastor, Todd and two of our Elders were there. they simply wanted to pray for us and anoint us and our sabbaticals. it was pretty awesome. then, our group went to lunch together at Boudins.

afterwards, i went to the mall and looked for bedspreads. liked a few. didn't buy any.

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"sabbatical - day two and completion of the collection"

day two was all about getting things in order so we can rest for our sabbatical. so, i did laundry and cleaned the house.

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also, i've been collecting these special edition Mountain Dew™ aluminum cans. they had famous artists do their own designs and they're kinda hard to find. anyway, i started collecting them a few weeks ago and completed my collection today. (check them all out at
www.greenlabelart.com)

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"it's a sabbatical - day one"

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today was day one of my two week sabbatical. people have been asking me a lot about this sabbatical and what it's about. so, here's the deal...

one thing that
ROCKHARBOR is really intentional about is their traditions. of course, everyone has traditions and they can often become traditions simply for tradition's sake. however, in the case of RH, their traditions are always very purposeful. one strong tradition that RH holds is pouring into their employees (and volunteers for that matter) and making sure that they know that they are valued. this comes out in a number of ways. some of those are traditions in themselves. for instance, every year at Christmas, the staff is taken to Disneyland and given either a deluxe annual pass or the cash equivalent as a Christmas bonus. last Thursday, the girls went on their annual girls retreat. this year, a limo picked them up and took them all to a day spa. (apparently, the guys have never had one only because, from what i'm told, they haven't had a girl to plan it for them. i'm told that we will be breaking that tradition this year!)

anyway, one opportunity
RH has created in the vein of this tradition of valuing the staff is our sabbaticals this year. over the course of the next few months, everyone on staff (from the top down to the receptionist) will get a two week guided sabbatical. now, at first, i was kinda skeptical. (i think it was the word "guided" that did it.) stuff like this tends to have ulterior motives. but i was mistaken. from what i've already seen (and heard from others who have already completed their sabbaticals) it's a very intentional time of rest and growth.

here's what i know so far...

today we met at
ROCKHARBOR for our sabbatical orientation meeting. there are five people in our group including myself and Stacy. we were told that we will have 8 free days and four group days during the sabbatical. we are not allowed to step foot on campus, respond to e-mails or phone calls that are RH related or work in any way that would be considered RH related.

each day, we have an envelope that we open. the envelope will have our instructions for that day. most of them will be a simple scripture reading, a focus for the day and a small reading in the book we were all given. on our group days, our envelopes will tell us where we will meet and what we will do. the sabbatical will end with a two-day retreat next week.

the great thing though is that the structure that they've provided is loose enough to make it our own time but structured enough that it won't simply be a vacation. (after all, we are still be payed for this!) i'm excited about it and i'll keep you updated on what we've been up to every day.

- barnes

ps... here's my weigh in for this week...

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"sticky notes on the screen"

i left a little surprise on Stacy's computer screen.

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"a time for retirement"

this morning was my friend Larry Bender's surprise retirement party. Larry and i went to India together in 2005 and really helped to launch the India campaign that Yorba Linda Friends is still pushing hard. (i think they've built over 15 schools and sponsored around 1,000 kids or more. it's a pretty cool deal.) anyway, Larry has really been instrumental in keeping that going and he's a pretty cool guy.

also, my friend Jay Hoff brought his baby who i've never had the opportunity to see. so, it was nice to finally meet her.

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"the return of Battlestar"

make fun of me all you want, but i frakkin' love Battlestar Galactica! and i'm not the only one. Friday night was the 4th (and final) season premiere and we had a little get-together. so, after Jonas' 30th birthday party, Stacy and i headed back to my place to meet Tommy, Keri, Timmy, Amber, Trevor and Tyler for the show. and it was awesome. and Tyler dressed as Dwight from The Office. that was awesome too.

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"the long awaited M3 sedan"

for years i've been saying "BMW should make an M3 sedan!" well, today, it arrived. i stopped by Crevier BMW to see one. they're pretty awesome.

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"a prayer for the elders and time with the kids"

our Elder board goes on retreat this weekend to cast vision for the next few years. today, everybody got a paper with the name of an Elder couple to pray for this week leading up to the retreat. it put mine up in my cubical with my fortune cookie fortunes (and my "Office" quote magnets).

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the kids came over with Erin tonight. so cute. just love them.

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"walking to work"

so, for some reason... i walked to work this afternoon for our kids worship rehearsal. it's 3 miles and i made it just under 45 minutes.

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"a sad day indeed"

last night, dad called and let me know. our family dog, Baby, who we've had for 14 years, was in bad shape. she couldn't stand up on her own. so, this morning, i went up and we all said goodbye. it was really sad.

we got Baby in 1995 because Megan (who, i think, was in the 5th grade at the time) made a bet with my parents that if she could get 100% on a test, we would get a dog. Megan had been having trouble in whatever particular subject it was and so they made the bet. well, Megan got 100%. (of course, later we found out that she had told her teacher about the bet and might have had a little help!) a few months later, we got Baby.

we didn't get to name her. she was already 2 1/2 years old. we got her from a kennel where somebody paid for her to be for 6 months. nobody ever claimed her later and they were going to put her to sleep. she's been a fantastic dog. and we all loved her very much.

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in more happy news, i lost a few more pounds! (i'm down 11 now!)

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"flippin church"

my friend's mom was in a town called Flippin, Arkansas last week and took this picture. she showed it to me this morning. i had to have a copy.

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"a porsche in the desert"

dad came up in the porsche... Stacy and i drove it back.

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"on the lake again"

another day on the lake! dad came up today too.

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"a day on the lake"

Megan, Stacy and i went up to Havasu on Wednesday night. we spent all day today on the lake. it was around 90 degrees and the water was pretty cold, but it was fun! (plus, we saw the strangest looking motorhome ever and got to eat at Mudsharks, which is pretty much amazing.)

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"unloading Easter and playing Operation"

today, we unloaded all the stuff from Easter. it was pretty intense, so this afternoon, the girls took a break from work and played a game of "Operation" on the floor of the bullpen.

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"spiritual parenting"

one of the foundations of RH Families is our Spiritual Parenting class. our entire staff goes through this class so that we'll know what the parents and families are learning. tonight was the last night of the class for March.

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"monday... the day of rest (and a weigh-in)"

this week's weigh-in...

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that's right... i'm down 8 pounds!

Stacy and i took the day off and laid out by the pool.

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"Easter with the fam"

somehow, after all of that, we made it home for Easter with the fam. (and yes.. even Vaughn, or Vaughnald, or Bilvaughnald was there!) just pictures...

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"a hot and amazing Easter"

so, Easter was a-freakin'-mazing. i'm pretty much going to let the pictures tell the story. what i will say is this...

- it was REALLY hot
- we had over 9,000 people show up (that's 2000 more than last year)
- the name
ROCKHARBOR wasn't mentioned once from any stage (as we simply promote it as "OC Easter," it's not meant to promote us. we gave any visitors a list of local churches to choose from. ROCKHARBOR wasn't even first on that list. this was impressive to me.)
- we had nearly 1,000 kids
- the main service had an amazing "stomp" style number that told the story of salvation using no words (it was very moving)
- the kids service was held in a tent (we had stages on three sides and had a skit and worship on one stage, hosts on one and i taught on the other)
- we handed out thousands of free bottles of water and Krispy Kreme doughnuts
- services ended at 12.30 pm and, due to our ridiculously amazing staff and volunteers, we had the entire place torn down (including the main stages and the kid's tents) and packed up by 1.30 pm!!!
- these are just a few of the over 300 pictures i took

here are the pictures...

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"the day between"

one of the really cool things about Easter at ROCKHARBOR is that starting at the first Good Friday service, and going through the end of the Sunday services, the fairgrounds are constantly covered in prayer. for three days straight, staff and church members alike signed up for hour-long prayer walks for every hour. each hour (even the ones in the middle of the night) had anywhere from 2 to 20 people. well, today, at 5.00 pm, i had my hour.

when i got there, i found the prayer walk tent. each of us took a rock out of a jar and our instructions for the walk. they told us where to go and ideas of things to pray for. after we got back, we added our rocks to the pile of all the people who had been praying over the past day and a half. it was cool to see that symbolic representation of all the people who came together in prayer for this weekend.

after it was over, we had rehearsal for the next day's kid's services.

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"a good friday"

well, first we went to lunch. (the Larson's love their cell phones!)

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after that, we had three Good Friday services for kids (i think 6 services overall). it was pretty awesome to see these kids totally getting emotional and really worshipping as we talked about what Jesus did for us. Tommy and Timmy and Ashley took turns leading worship, Stacy gave a message tying some video clips together and giving the Good Friday story and i wrapped it up with a message about how it applies to us. the kids seemed really into it.

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after the service, we had to load up everything that hadn't been taken to the fairgrounds. again, i was amazed at how many volunteers just showed up and made it happen. we were done in no time.

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"getting lost all over again"

a little get-together for Lost tonight.

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"Easter setup"

every year, ROCKHARBOR does Easter at the Orange County Fairgrounds. it's a big deal. we basically advertise it all over the county and invite anyone to come. (you can check out the website at www.oceaster.com) we put it on though we don't advertise it as a ROCKHARBOR event. we offer newcomers a list of OC churches to check out including ROCKHARBOR, Newport Mesa, The Crossing, Mariners, Yorba Linda Friends and others. anyway, this has been going on for years now and has quite a few traditions associated with it.

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the first tradition is that our Wednesday staff meeting is held in the Pacific Amphitheater where the services will be held. the entire meeting consists of two things. the first is storytelling.

this was actually really cool. Todd (our Lead Pastor) opened up by asking people to share stories of Easter's past. however, he made a very intentional effort to say that "even for those of you who weren't here for these stories, you're part of the family now and our history is your history." and somehow, it was. even though i wasn't there for any of these stories, i felt like i was. i felt like i was apart of them. and one by one, people began sharing stories from Easter's past. some of them were hysterically funny. some of them were seriously moving. but it was a great time of storytelling and sharing.

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the second part of the meeting consists of each staff member being assigned a seating section. then we were sent off to march around our section seven times (like Joshua at Jericho) all the while praying for the people who would be sitting there this weekend. at the end of that time, we all came back to the front of the amphitheater where Mike (our Teaching Pastor) read the story of Joshua. then Pete Shambrook (one of our pastors) blew on a trumpet and we all yelled at the top of our lungs for a good 30 seconds to a minute. (check out the video clip at the end of this entry.) maybe kinda dumb... but somehow, it was an awesome thing to be apart of.

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the cool thing is, it's a shared experience. it's one that happens every year. so for the 10-15 of us who just joined the staff this year, we felt like we were a part of it even though we hadn't experienced it before.

the rest of the day was spent eating free Chick-Fil-A and setting up the children's tents. we had SO many volunteers show up to help put this on. our church really knows how important this outreach opportunity is and they were there in total support. so much so, that we actually were done by 8pm (way earlier than we thought or has ever been done before!) not only that, but the tents came out awesome!

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it's crazy to think that so much work goes into one day... but i'm really excited about it. if you don't have a place to go for Easter, come to the fairgrounds at either 9 or 11 am. it's gonna be great!

- barnes

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i could have sworn i took a picture for this day. but, alas... i cannot find one. sad.
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"weigh in and some construction"

so, this morning was my one week weigh in. yup... i lost five pounds!!! on my way!

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while i was doing some work, i looked out the window to where they are doing construction across the way and i saw this guy single-handedly dismantling the scaffolding. he was up there, not tied to anything, and using his feet to move these boards. i watched the whole thing and can't believe he didn't fall. i know it's just a parking structure and some stores, but it's really been quite fascinating to watch the whole thing go up.

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"team ro 2"

today was the first meeting of the new Team Romania. unfortunately, i don't think that i'm meant to go.

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"the new old house"

over the past few months, i've been overseeing the remodel of the house i moved out of on Thrasher. it's just about done and here are the pictures.

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"weight watchers desserts"

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"new camera, a trip to the island and macbook twins"

i got a new camera... woo hoo!

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we took a trip down to Balboa Island
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this is a really creepy house of stuffed rabbits (how can people with such a great view have such horrible taste?)
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"yesterday's flowers... today"

yesterday, i got Stacy some flowers. here are the pictures she took of them today.

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"photoshoot!"

today, after our Families Team meeting, we had a Families Team photoshoot. here are some of the results.

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"projects all around!"

here are pictures of two projects that began today....

the first is one that Stacy and i began today that will, hopefully, last a long time. we joined the Weight Watchers Points Program. (i'm gonna get thin again!!!) it's actually pretty cool cuz you can eat whatever you want, but just in limited amounts. it really just makes you think about your food choices and "budget" them just like you would with money. i'll be weighing in every Monday. i started off today at 223 lbs. (i'm sad to say). but i'm headed toward my goal of 185 lbs!

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the second project was not one of mine, although i assigned it. at
ROCKHARBOR, we're doing Family Ministries in a very non-traditional way, but in a way that makes a whole lot more sense when you look at it. the basic idea is that parents should be the primary nurturers of their children's faith... not us. we play a supportive role. the goal, overall, is to not "create" good, Christian kids. that's never successful. the goal is for parents to be creating environments in which the Holy Spirit can work and grow within their kids as He chooses.

anyway, once people get passed their preconceived notions of "how church should be," it's clear that this makes way more sense. but, sometimes it's difficult to communicate this to people and get them past those preconceived notions and previous paradigms. the project i gave our team was to come up with some creative ways to approach that. tomorrow is the due date and today i got to see some of the groups in our team working on their projects. it was pretty cool.

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"a beautiful sunset and a fun meeting"

tonight was the VBS vision meeting for Children's. the suggestion for Naked Day for when we teach on Adam and Eve may not have been taken totally seriously. (but just think about it... we could do fig leaf clothes for the craft.)


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"kaela's birthday dinner of chaos"

tonight was my cousin Kaela's 14th birthday party.

it started by going to Beau's baseball game (her little brother). the game was going long and so my uncle started to get antsy and wanting to go to dinner. so he took grandma and went to Benihanas (where Kaela wanted to go for dinner for her birthday). he got there and called us to say that the wait was an hour and a half and he didn't want to wait. so we met him at another Japanese restaurant. when we got there, we found that the wait was 2 hours. well, this did not go over well with anyone.

Uncle Vaughn wasn't happy... his wife Erin pulled up right then and was trying to calm him down. Amie (my cousin who was in town with her little daughter Tillie from Indiana) was getting hungry and just wanted someone to make a decision. Kaela suggested California Pizza Kitchen and everyone kinda brushed her off. (which was funny because it is HER birthday party.) after a 15 minute discussion on everywhere we could go... making calls... everything... Uncle Vaughn said "how about California Pizza Kitchen?" everyone was like "okay!" and Kaela said "i said that 15 minutes ago!!!"

so, then we went to CPK which was fine... but just chaos with four kids under 10 and a restaurant full of people. anyway, we went back to Bekie's and had ice cream from Baskin-Robbins (which was amazing!). anyway, here's a pic of Kaela with our little cousin, Kate.

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"kids and dogs"

picked the kids up.... got some pizza... visited the dogs! (the kids love "Scoutie" and Chloe.)

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"i love these kids"

the kids came over today!

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"scope and sequence"

today, we did chapel at Friends Christian School and then had our Family Ministries Scope and Sequence meeting at my place. five hours of planning and meeting... good times!

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"crap... no pics"

i'm not sure what happened, but the pics i took on my iPhone for the 3rd and 4th somehow were erased. :-(
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"dinner at Mastro's"

Stacy's birthday dinner at Mastro's Ocean Club with my parents.
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"ROunion with Emese"

our friend, Emese (pronounced Emma-Shay) from Romania was visiting. we thought that lunch at Ruby's on the pier would be a good idea. who knew the weather would suck so bad? we had fun though and then hung out at Stacy's after church.

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"new york... day three"

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pics of the pad

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a quick cab ride

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out for a walk

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after going all over the city and visiting like five Aldo's, Stacy finally got her boots!

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the cab ride back to the airport (you can watch tv in the cabs now!)
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"new york... day two"

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just some walkin' in NYC pics

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in front of the Apple Store on 5th Ave.

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hangin' out at 30 Rock

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and we finished our day with a little Hairspray (staring Norm from Cheers as the mom!)
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"new york... day one"

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stacy got her coffee

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in front of Bond No. 9

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my favorite little pizza place in SoHo

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the deli across from Marc Jacobs ("yous peoples bitches!".... long story)

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"suprise!!!"

today, i got to do what i've been planning to do for weeks. tomorrow is Stacy's 30th birthday and i wanted to do something big for her. so, last night, when i dropped her off, i said "you need to go inside and pack a bag for four days. it's going to be cold. i'll pick you up at 7.00 am." she was like, "what?!?!?!"
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so, this morning i picked her up at 7. we loaded up my car and got on the freeway. she had no idea where we were going. i made little comments like "you should get comfortable... it's going to be a long ride" and "i hope we can make it there today!" she was even more confused. she thought we were going on some ridiculously long road trip or something.

then, i pulled off the 405 at Century and she realized that we were going to the airport. we parked the car and hopped on a shuttle for LAX. then there was a little hickup in the plan.

when we got to the terminal, i realized that i had left my wallet in the car. we didn't have a lot of time, so i had to quickly find another shuttle, rush back, get my wallet and get back to the terminal. fortunately, i was able to do this in about 15 minutes. unfortunately, i had to have Stacy check us in when i wasn't there so i didn't get to be there when she found out that we were going to New York.
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anyway, it was all pretty cool. we flew on the new Virgin America ($129 each way and direct from LAX to JFK!) and it was awesome! each seat has a touchscreen where you can watch live tv, listen to music, watch movies and even order your food that they bring to you when you want it.

when we got into New York, we realized that the airline had lost Stacy's bag. lame! (it worked out though. it was waiting for us at my sister's place when we woke up the next morning.) anyway, we went to Meri's place (it's actually our family's place... she just lives there) and got settled in. then we went walking looking for dinner and found this noodle place called Ollie's. i wouldn't recommend it.

by that time, it was getting late so we went back and watched some episodes of The Office and played with Meri's dog, Kona. all in all... a great day!
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"visiting Ella"

tonight, Megan and dad and i went to dinner at Hibachi and then went over to see the Cork kids. i spent most of my time playing with Ella. she's adorable. i just love her.

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"prayer boards"

ROCKHARBOR put up these really cool boards out in the hallway outside The Centre. each one is for a different region of Orange County with the cities listed and facts about those regions. and there's a place at the bottom where people can sign up to pray for those regions. it's really kinda cool.

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"mustaches and hospice kids"

so, today i woke up and decided to shave off my goatee. but, since Stacy hates mustaches, i stopped 1/2 way through just to take this picture.

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anyway, the main part of my day was spent taking a bunch of our ROCKHARBOR kids down to a children's hospital called "Healthbridge." we went down and spent time singing for and reading to these kids who have all kinds of disabilities and disorders. it was pretty amazing.

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"sweeping, mopping, guitar hero and fur balls"

the title pretty much sums up my day. sometimes i don't realize how much floorspace i have... that was a lot of mopping! also, i have this stupid rug that sheds fur balls and makes it look like i have a cat or something. (and you all know how much i HATE cats!)

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oh yeah... and tonight i went to see U2 3D again. more amazing the second time than the first! (i also like it better in regular theaters than the IMAX because they use the higher quality digital projectors... it was awesome!) here's a picture i took. (blurry because of the 3D!)

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"chick-fil-a and a trip to the Hurley store"

today, Stacy brought me Chick-fil-a in the office for lunch even though she wasn't working. so nice!

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and, yesterday i got to go to the Hurley employee store and do some shopping. i bought Stacy this jacket that she wore today.

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"more tv"

tonight it was "Boston Legal" and "American Idol!" (which i haven't watched in a long, long time.)

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"i miss The Office!"

so, tonight we watched Office episodes because we miss it so.

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"we do chicken right!"

today was President's Day. this means... NO WORK!!! so what did we do? i cleaned up the house, did laundry, paid bills, visited grandma and stopped by to see Erin and the kids. the most exciting part of my day off was... KFC dinner! (haven't visited the Colonel in a long time.) nothin' like some extra crispy legs and thighs.

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(this is, in no way, anything like the KFC we visited.)
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"lunch and yogurt"

after church today, we went out to lunch at Corner Bakery™ with Breanna and Ashley. (i LOVE the grilled ham and swiss panini... no tomatoes and pesto mayo instead of mustard mayo.)

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then, tonight Ashley took us to her favorite yogurt place called Yogurtland™. the line was freakin' 45 minutes long! (it was good, but it wasn't that good.)

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"picnic in the park"

Stacy and i made a picnic lunch and rode the Vespa down to a little park overlooking the bay in Newport. it was beautiful.

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"flying helicopters and potty training"

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the kids came back over today. so cute. so, i found this little helicopter thing at Target™ that was cheap and awesome. it's called an AirHog™ and it's a remote controlled helicopter. so, Chino loved it as i was flying it around my place.

the other event of the evening was when Leilani (age 19 months) ran to the bathroom and started taking off her diaper in front of the toilet. can't hardly talk, but wants to use the toilet. so, she gets on there and i go out to the dinner table where Chino is playing and tell him that she's on the toilet. Chino (who is a year and a half older) has yet to be potty trained, so he gets this look on his face. he's not about to let her show him up. so he runs in there and as soon as she's off, he jumps on and pees. hysterical. so we were doing double potty training! awesome.

we also had fun dancing around and having them jump all over me. it was a fun night!
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"the hallmark/sees candy conspiracy"

i mean... Valentine's Day. we had a pretty good one, i'd say!

this year, V-Day fell on a Thursday, which means no work for Stacy or i. (we work weekends and have Thursdays and Fridays off.)

so, we grabbed lunch after meeting up at her house and exchanging gifts. (she got me the Friends Deluxe Edition of SceneIt™ (which is awesome because somebody stole my old version. i have my suspicions as to who, but i won't name names here.) after lunch we headed back to my place where we took these pictures on the balcony.

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that night, we headed out to LA to see Aretha Franklin in concert at the new Nokia Theatre. (we'd bought the tickets for my parents to use, but my dad didn't realize that he'd be out of town. so, we used them ourselves.) what an experience that was! lots of middle aged white people trying to dance and sing along. lots of middle aged black people actually dancing and singing along. it was quite the night.

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"Kathy's birthday lunch"

the title pretty much describes this one pretty well.

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"back in the classroom"

sometimes i really miss teaching. today, i got to lead our Family Ministries team in a leadership development session that i designed (the whiteboard picture is from that) and then i got to guest teach in my friend's speech and presentations class at APU. (she teaches the class.) it was a blast.

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"wrestling family members and Mika"

so, i stopped by my parent's house this morning and got to witness Megan and dad in a wrestling match. i've never laughed so hard in my life. (neither had they.)

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and yes... Megan did grab her bat for protection. (for those who don't know my family... well, this is fairly common and is just how we show our love for one another. that and deep sarcasm.)

tonight, we went to see the most fun concert i've ever seen. Megan, Alex, Bekie, Kaela, Stacy and i went to see Mika up at the Wiltern.

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that is the opening act.... a rap group that, i think, Mika found performing out on 3rd street. (they were just that good.)

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"talkin' bout love"

today, i spoke in "The Hub" (our high school group at ROCKHARBOR). i spoke on love. since i couldn't take a picture of myself as i spoke, here's a picture of Eric and the other guy (don't know his name) leading worship after i spoke.

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i'll also throw in this picture of my parents. this is their prom picture! i used it in my talk.

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"looking for towels"

not very exciting, but i went looking for towels today for my new place. i did this alone. i didn't know what i was doing.

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(towel swatches)
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"flight of the conchords"

Bekie bought me "Flight of the Conchords" a few weeks ago and i started it today. i love it!

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(that's me watching "Flight of the Conchords"... though you can't tell here, i spent most of the time laughing.)
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"waiting on the dmv to change"

waiting forever at the DMV is just something we can all depend on no matter what.

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"an office bike ride and dinner with the kids"

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(Doug Berry riding Stacy's bike around our office... highly entertaining)

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(we gave Leilani a new teddy bear... she kept kissing it when she thought nobody was looking)

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(after dinner, they watched Monsters, Inc. and were very into it)

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"a birthday lunch"

today, we celebrated Ashley's birthday (even though it was last week) by going to lunch at Panera. it was a lot of fun!

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"run away!"

this was our one-day retreat. i'm not going to go into too much detail except to say that when you have a leader like Michelle and a team like ours, a retreat like this is nothing short of inspiring. but, that's what a little vision and direction will do for ya!

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"superbowl Sunday at the h"

i'm sure you all know that i don't care about professional (or unprofessional for that matter) sports at all really. but, when we realized that our Family Ministries Staff Retreat was planned on the superbowl, i offered to have a party at my place before we left. it was a lot of fun.

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watching the game

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from left to right... Michelle (the boss lady), Ashley (awesome do everything girl), the top of Tyler's head (Middle School guy and Dwight Schrute impersonator), Raelynn (new Middle School staffer), Brandi (in charge of the Nursery), Eric (Middle/High School worship guy), Tommy (all Families production stuff), Kit (Children's director) and Cori (High School staffer and superbowl ignorer).

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Cori still doesn't care.

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Angelina (Pre School director), Kathy (amazing admin) and Stacy (girlfriend/Elementary director) care so much about the game, that they're laying on my bed watching old episodes of "Arrested Development."

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this is what the person with the best and most direct view of the tv during the game chooses to do with it.
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"a very long service"

i love ROCKHARBOR, but sometimes...

anyway, tonight was one of those "sometimes" as our promised hour and a half service hit a full two hours!!! i heard the service was amazing, but you try handling several hundred kids for two hours straight when you've only planned an hour and a half worth of programming. anyway, here are the pics!

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(the front doors)

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(the 6.00pm service lets out at 8.00 pm)

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(the mad dash to pick up the kids in Studio K)

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(some quick shopping in the Bible Bucks Store)

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(me and my little friend, Ella.. Ella... Ella...)
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"the wonder of Whole Foods™"

today, we took Stacy's car to get new tires at Costco™ and then walked around The District shopping center for a long while. we ended up having dinner at Whole Foods™ which is a pretty amazing place. (you should check it out if you get the chance.) they have pretty much every food in the world available there for your immediate consumption. it's very impressive. but the most impressive thing to me, from the viewpoint of an org. leadership guy, was the feedback board at the front of the store. they have a bulletin board at the front of the store where anyone can leave a comment card asking a question, making a comment or even giving a complaint or suggestion. the cool thing is, the cards have a place for your comment and then a place for a response. the manager reads all the cards and responds to each one individually and then reposts them on the board so you can see that your comments have been heard and taken into consideration. it's really pretty impressive. i was impressed anyway.
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"getting Lost all over again"

i know this is two entries for one day, but it was too much for just one!

one of the things that's kinda been hard for both Stacy and i since we've moved down here has been losing our old group of friends.
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there were a lot of things that we were happy to leave behind when we both chose to move down here, but one of the things that kept us there for so long was our really tight group of friends. we've sorta been mourning the loss of our group lately.

anyway, it's fun to reconnect with them from time to time and when we realized that today was going to be the season premiere of Lost, we thought it might be time again. of course, everybody being scattered around the state, not everyone could make it. (Kit couldn't come and, as always, we missed Dana and Jen.) but, we had fun nonetheless. plus, the new season of Lost looks like it's going to freakin' ROCK! (check out the free 8:15 recap on iTunes... it's awesome! it recaps three seasons of lost in 8 minutes and 15 seconds and is hysterical. a good reminder of where we've been for longtime fans and a good way to catch new fans up to speed.)

anyway, so Kirsch, Amanda, Brianne, Erica, Ashley, Stacy and i gathered here in "the h" for the premiere. but, i thought it was a little girl-heavy, so i invited Tyler to come to. impressively, Tyler totally held his own with our sarcastic group full of girls he didn't know.

as usual, Kirsch made cake (yum!) and we all watched the premiere and were blown away. then, because you just have to, we all played Guitar Hero III™ for an hour or two. the perfect ending to a perfect night. (actually, the perfect ending came when i got to go to bed. after the doctor, carrying a three year old around Disneyland™ all day and then a little party, i was exhausted!)

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(Ashley rockin' the Guitar Hero)

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(Erica watching the Guitar Hero... up close!)

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(Stacy and Amanda chillin on the couch)

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(Ashley lost. sad.)

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(Erica's into it)

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(couch dwellers)

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"the doctor and Disneyland™"

if you've been around me any time in the past month, you know that i have this annoyingly persistent cough that just won't go away. finally, i went to the doctor today. he gave me drugs. i hope i get better.
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(the Mountain Dew™ was not prescribed by the doctor but is my own drug of choice.)

after that, Stacy and i took her nephew, Chino to Disneyland™ for his 3rd birthday. here are the crappy pics i took on my iPhone™. Stacy has the good ones on her camera.
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"seeing Scout (and Baby)"

i had a dentist appointment this morning, so i went up to see my dogs for a few minutes. gotta love em.

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"funny cards at Target™"

as usual, Tuesday is Target™ day. tomorrow is Ashley Otani's birthday (happy birthday, Ash!) so, i needed to get her a card and whatnot. we found this new line of cards by a guy named Jim Benton that's pretty entertaining. (some of the phrases on the cards included "nobody's perfect... but i'm as close as it gets," "it's cute how you think i'm listening," "exercise hard... eat right... die anyway," "don't blame me... i was born awesome," "please put all criticisms in the form of a compliment," "i'm not saying i'm cool... that's your job," and "i sincerely want you to genuinely worship me.")

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- barnes
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"service and a haircut"

when i woke up this morning, i just felt like the mohawk had lived its life.

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for a few years now, i've been doing leadership development with the high school service team at Yorba Linda Friends. even though i'm not there anymore, i've continued my work with them because they're awesome and i love working with them. tonight was my first time back with them since September.

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(that's Emily, Vicente, Jeremy, Alex and Kaysie from left to right. Daniel's in the back.)
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"a day without pictures"

no photos for today. sad.
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"snow in orange county"

okay... so there wasn't really snow in Orange County. but after several crappy weather days, from a brief period of time today, the clouds parted and the mountains in the distance were revealed. and though they are not in Orange County, the snow on them could be seen from Orange County. it was beautiful.

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of course, by 4.00pm, the clouds were back and by 7.00pm, it was raining once again.

tomorrow... thunderstorms! :-(

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"more... just... more"

i'm braindead. another full day of paper writing. however, i ran out of room writing on the windows of my office and had to move into my bedroom.

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"brainstorming on glass"

sometimes, when i have a paper to write or a project i'm working on, i do my brainstorming on the windows of my condo. that was my day today.

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"you too need to see it!"

holy crap on a stick!*
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i've been waiting for this day for over a year now. i heard about it. i read about it. i even saw pictures and clips. but nothing could do justice to describe how awesome U2 3D actually is

of course, you all know how big of a U2 fan i am. i've seen them live 8 times (once on the PopMart Tour, three times on the Elevation Tour and four times on the Vertigo Tour). i have all their music, bootlegs, dvds, rare cds and b-sides. so, one would think that, no matter what, i would absolutely love this. this may not be true.

i mean... i've seen them a lot. i've seen (and own) all the dvds and everything.
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so, if there's something new, it had better be pretty good. honestly, there was a part of me that was worried that i might not like this at all or might get bored seeing something i've seen so many times. i couldn't have been more wrong.

even if you're not a U2 fan, you need to see this movie. the use of 3D is AMAZING. it really redefines the movie entertainment experience. it's not over-the-top, in-your-face 3D like you'd probably expect. it's way more subtle than that most of the time. simply put, it feels like you've been given an all access pass to walk around stage, through the audience and into the amazing graphics during a U2 show. when Bono looks you straight in the eye and sings "Beautiful Day," you feel like he's literally standing right in front of you, making eye contact and singing to you.
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when the crowd jumps up and down and undulates like the sea, you feel like you're right in the middle of it. when the guy in the row in front of you pulls out a joint and lights up, you can smell it. (oh wait... that might just have been in our theater.**)

my only complaints are that they could have done more with the interactive graphics. during songs like "The Fly" and "Love and Peace," the graphics people do some pretty cool stuff to immerse you in the song. however, it seems like this could have been done a bit more for consistency and just because it's pretty freakin' cool. also, i wish they'd have done a few more songs. as it stands, it's slightly under an hour and a half. U2 shows generally run around two and a half hours. not that they should have done the entire setlist, but it would have been cool to see songs like "City of Blinding Lights" or "Mysterious Ways." however, these are minor quibbles in comparison with how amazing this thing really is.

this film will set a new standard for how movies will be made.
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in fact, it already is. the company who made it (3ality Digital) has studied and perfected the 3D process. they've eliminated the aspects of 3D that made you get headaches or feel seasick before. it really is nearly perfect. and, in the past few months, as people have been experiencing this within the movie industry, the studios have announced a large number of 3D films for the next two years. so seriously, check it out. right now, it's showing at IMAX theaters only. starting on February 13th, you can see it in regular theaters as well. oh... and if you do go and see it, make sure to stay through the credits for one last song and an amazing 3D graphics display.

check out
www.u23dmovie.com for more info and online ticket buying too.

-barnes

* this quote stolen from my old friend, Tracy Cynaumon who now has some other last name that i can't quite remember right now.

** seriously. he lit up right there in the movie theater.
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"morning people, guy's nights and mourning people"

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so, i've never been a morning person. never claimed to be. never was willing to put in the effort to be. i'd rather sleep in or be grumpy in the mornings and then be a perfectly pleasant person in the afternoon, evenings and into the night. lately, i've been feeling the need to change.
i would never have admitted it before, but i've always envied morning people. they're so bright and cheery and i feel like they get so much more out of their days than i do. a week or two ago, i decided that i would make myself over i would become a morning person. i mean, i like mornings. they're beautiful (sometimes) and seem like a very useful time in the day. i've just never been able to enjoy them due to my penchant for late nights. Sunday, i decided that today would be the day i began my transformation.

this morning, my alarm went off at 6.30 am. (VERY early for me.) i immediately hit snooze.
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at 6.40 am, again it went off. again i hit snooze. 6.50 am... snooze. 7.00 am... snooze. but then, before i could fall back asleep, i felt guilty and got my sorry ass out of bed. (just because i work at a church now, doesn't mean that i'm not going to say "ass" anymore. sorry if that offends your sensibilities. also, keep your eyes open for "damn" and "hell.") anyway, i threw on some clothes, grabbed my MacBook™ and my morning Mountain Dew™ and headed out to the cold of the balcony for a little morning alone time

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it was a beautiful morning (as you can see from the pictures i took). as if God were saying "see? this is what you've been missing, you idiot!" anyway, because i snoozed so long, my time was cut a bit short. (stupid having to go to work.) but i got a chance to catch up on the news, drink my Dew™, read Isaiah 40, talk to God and take some pictures before heading off to the shower. could i be a morning person? perhaps. but it will take some effort and dedication. i hope that you all will support me on my quest to find the morning person within.

guy's night

if you know me, chances are that you know that most of my closest friends are not of the male variety. it's not intentional (or maybe it is on some subconscious level) but i always seem to end up with more friends that are girls. lately, that has been changing a bit. so, tonight we had a guy's night here at "the h." (by the way, in case i've never mentioned it, my new place is referred to as "the h." this started because it is the "H" model and when we were looking at places down here we referred to it by its model designation to differentiate between it and the other units we looked at. now it seems to stand for "hell yeah!" or something like that.) anyway, so guy's night.

Kit, Tommy, Jer, Tyler and Timmy came over and we had pizza and played Guitar Hero™ and watched
Swingers. doesn't sound too crazy or out there exciting. but you know, it was pretty cool. as we were talking, i realized that i'm not the only one who has trouble just "getting together with the guys." so, it was pretty nice to be able to do that. i think we'll have to do it again soon. (i'd post pictures.... but it's a guy's night... you really think we took pictures? what... for our scrapbooks? please.)

mourning people

of course, the big news today was that actor Heath Ledger was found dead in his apartment. first, i want to acknowledge that this is indeed a tragedy. i liked Heath's movies (never saw
Brokeback... but i liked the ones that i saw), i think he was incredibly talented and i am still very much looking forward to seeing him as The Joker in the upcoming The Dark Knight. having said all of that, watching the reactions of the people at work today as they found out was priceless.

our office area (which we refer to as "the bullpen") houses about 30 desks surrounded by offices. somehow, nobody shouted out "oh my gosh... Heath Ledger died!" at any point. instead, each area of desks seemed to find out on their own in various ways and have a variety of reactions. from the guys, it usually was something like "wow... bummer" or "ah man... that sucks!" but from the girls, it was a whole other ballgame. Stacy was quite distraught. mostly because (and i just realized this) i think she thought she actually might have had a chance with him or something. (not that i'm worried about it. i mean, she knows that if Penelope Cruz comes along... ) anyway, other girls reactions varied from near tears, to looks of befuddlement. however, my favorite, by far, was from Raelyn, our middle school intern. though the news had been circulating for nearly two hours, i was sitting at my desk when i heard Raelyn shout "NO!!!!" (it was actually more of a shriek.) i looked over at Ashley and we both said... "she just found out." she immediately stopped doing whatever she was doing so that she could get online and get details. Tyler was trying to meet with her and finally just gave up. when he came over for guy's night he told me that she ended up being useless for the rest of the day. (considering that she only interns one day a week, that's a bummer.)

well, that's all for today. tune in tomorrow to find out how amazing U2 3D the movie turns out to be!

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"weird weather day"

today was weird because it would be beautiful and sunny one minute, raining the next and then beautiful and sunny again the next. who can keep up? here's a picture outside ROCKHARBOR tonight. i just love the streets when they've been recently rained on. (that smell of rain on asphalt is almost intoxicating.)

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"teaching the teachers"

this weekend, we had leader training for kidsROCK (our Children's Ministry). Stacy and i developed and co-led a class on creative teaching and classroom management and it was pretty much awesome. we have amazing leaders/teachers/volunteers.

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"i am a hero" and "Christmas coming down"

before church, i finally got around to taking Christmas down. here is my light fixture sans Christmas red lights.

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i LOVE my guitar hero. after church tonight, i came home and played for an hour or two. so great!


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"motion sickness standing still"

i went and saw Cloverfield today. i don't know if it was because i hadn't eaten, or what, but the whole shaky-cam thing made me almost throw up several times. i mean, i almost had to leave the theater a few times. as far as the movie goes, it was pretty much exactly what i expected. i liked it, but it wasn't the end all that everyone has been making it out to be. anyway, i enjoy going to the movies alone, so this was a nice morning escape for me. (except for the near-vomit experience.) and yes... i know this isn't a picture i took. but it'll have to do.

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"sister Mardi"

so, Stacy was getting her hair done today and i stopped by to say hi and saw Mardi Cork there. she was coming from getting her hair washed or something and i thought she looked like a nun, so i took a picture.

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"balancing the budget"

what i'll remember about this day is that Stacy and Michelle stayed at work till 6.00pm trying to balance the Winter Camp budget. (you should have seen the excel spreadsheet and color coding!)

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"apple day!"

it only comes a few times a year. when it does, i count down the days, go in late to work and sit up and pay attention. it's Apple Day. the day when Apple decides to unleash some new awesome products on the all too suspecting public. pretty much... when i think of today... this is what i'll remember.

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the macbook air.
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"a day of rest"

since we worked all weekend, Stacy and i both got the day off on Monday. we took our beach cruisers and went for a bike ride.

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(our bikes parked outside of Juice It Up!)

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"shell burgers for everyone!"

Ralph (the guy who runs the camp in Idyllwild) told us that his wife is a "burger connoisseur" and that she said that the best burger in town was to be found at the Shell station. what? i know. but they even had a sign... "best burger on the hill." hmmm... we had to find out!

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they weren't that good.

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"winter camp fun"

so, in case you hadn't figured it out, this weekend was Winter Camp for ROCKHARBOR. we joined forces with some old friends at Mariners Church (Jen Epperson) and at High Desert Church (David Robles) that we'd worked with at Yorba Linda and it was amazing! (i was the speaker and the mohawk went along with my talks.) it was such an amazing time and the kids were fantastic. i'm so proud of Stacy for it all. she came up with the idea to do it, decided that we should plan our own camp (even though it's WAY more work), put the whole thing together with our team and made it awesome. as far as me being a camp speaker, it was a great experience. i'd been wanting to speak at a camp for a long time, so this was very cool for me.

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(Stacy, me and Ashley hanging out during freetime)

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(me speaking on stage)

anyway, camp was really cool, but i'm also really glad to be back in my own bed and out of the freezing cold.

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"an impromtu haircut"

i know that this is two daily pictures today, but this one had to be posted. i got me a haircut! yes... it's a mohawk. yes... it was for a purpose. yes... that's hair all over my shoulders.

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"when everything goes wrong"

when we got to camp and started setting up, about a million things went wrong at one time. it was pretty amazing. the biggest (for me) was that everything for the entire weekend was going to be run through my computer and i'd brought up the wrong adapter for the projector. (the one in the picture.) i called people... i googled the area for an Apple Store... i tried it all. then i stopped, closed my eyes and asked God to just help me relax and present a solution to the problem. i'm not kidding when i say it was less than a minute later that the camp host/manager guy showed up and had the exact thing i needed. and just in case that wasn't enough, right as he showed up, i got a call from my friend David who was on his way up and said that he had found the part at a Best Buy. amazing!

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"a time for dogs"

in the chaos of preparing for Winter Camp, i took a few minutes to visit my dogs. the german shepherd/chow mix is Baby. we've had her for 13 years or so. she's very old and not doing so well. Scout (the jack russell terrier) was an impulse buy a few years back. i saw him in the mall and had to have him. (note to self: research dogs BEFORE you buy them) anyway, it was nice to take a few minutes out of a hectic day and run around with the dogs.

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"prepping for Winter Camp"

i spent most of the day in the office prepping for Winter Camp and this weekend.
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